The talk.. Really awkward

[Ben785]

I am a little bit in puberty.. Got a bush growing and leg hair growing and some arm pit hair.. My mom always try's to do the talk and I just say shut up .. It's just so weird.. Should I just let her do it or what... What did you guys do when your parents asked you if you have any hair on your self help I need advice

[Jrice8506]

I have never had the talj

[TheWaterPrince]

Well my mom kinda just joked with me when I started getting hair and I just laughed and said shut up but when my dad decided to give me the talk I sat there with a poker face and didn't say anything because I already knew everything he said

[Ben785]

I already know everything.. It's just my
Mom asks me if I have any hair down there yet or on my arm pits and I just say shut up .. My dad just stays out of it.. What should I say? It's just really awkward

[Jrice8506]

talk

[justinglives]

Tel heru don't wanna talk about it. Its really personal and ufeel totally uneasy w her.

[Matt_is_Awesome]

never had the talk

[Jmac]

Just listen to it she is going to give it to you sooner or later. However I never did

[sdude]

Just tell her that you learned it in school and that yeah, I know I'm going through puberty but that you like to keep your privacy....she should go with that....

[aaron-in-the-uk]

Ive never had the talk but yeah i would just keep telling her to shut up or i would change the subject

[Cole881]

never have, to weird

[kenshin]

well i had the talk with my father but really just talk about it the more comfortable you r speaking about it (its never really comfortable to talk about) the better off u will be trust me.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well mothers are very protective with their babies, and they want to make sure they are okay, and just checking in on you since they don't want anything bad to happen to them, especially grow up. But we have to grow up anyways, but if your no comfortable with your mom talking about it, then ask your dad, and if you don't have a dad, then brother, or friends, or male cousin, or uncle. Any male figure to make you feel more comfortable.

[companioncube]

My mum never gave me the talk, she just left me to figure out everything on my own.

Bad idea mum

[nice]

I just brushed it off when she asked and act like I didn't hear anything

[Michael Anthony]

both of my parents have seen me naked so they never had to ask if i had hair down there

[budddie]

I don't walk around naked anymore because of the hair its just weird

[Neptune]

My mom or dad never gave me the talk. I know everything, though. It's pretty useless. I have brothers and the internet.

[TigerBoy]

both of my parents have seen me naked so they never had to ask if i had hair down there

Same, thank f**k hehe.

I don't get why your mum would want to know unless its to check you are developing ok ??? So maybe just tell her "puberty's going great mum, thanks for asking" sort of thing, then she'll drop it.

[OregonStateDude]

My mom doesn't like to talk about sex or puberty or anything like that, but my dad has already given me "the talk". It didn't bother me much, 'cuz I know he has the same parts that I do.

But he went on and on about teenage pregnancy and abortion and things like that. It was kinda cool that he was looking out for me that way, but he has no worries (I bat for the gay team, LoL).

[Abigballofdust]

I am a little bit in puberty.. Got a bush growing and leg hair growing and some arm pit hair.. My mom always try's to do the talk and I just say shut up .. It's just so weird.. Should I just let her do it or what... What did you guys do when your parents asked you if you have any hair on your self help I need advice

The talk can be very awkward. I got none, luckily. I think you should hear her out because if she's motivated to give you the talk, you won't get her off too easily.
It can't be too bad, she's mostly gonna tell you what you already know, and if she asks you stuff, just admit you're not comfortable with it and you'd rather leave that question unanswered.
Good luck.

[andrethaiss]

You seriously tell your mom to shut up? Wow, how the world is nowadays, shes just trying to help you.

[Jackerlus]

Luckily I haven't had the talk (yet...) and I'm pretty sure my parents know I've gone through puberty. I'd just say that we've learnt all of that at school and I don't need any extra input from you or something like that, good luck :D

[ianc96]

If you want her to stop asking you, then just let her talk to you about it.

Otherwise, just say "No thanks Mom, I learned it in school" or something like that. But don't tell your Mom to shut up! That's just rude.

[Gigablue]

I never really got "the talk" my parents just told me bits of information spaced out over the years. You could just tell your mom that you learned everything you need to know in school, or you could just let her talk and get it over with.

[CcRoder]

My parents have tried, but I'm just like "NAH NAH NAH MAH MWAH NOT LISTENING, NO I'M NOT!!"

It's all not that hard to figure out.

[Sudds3]

Just let her do it, every once and a while my dad will come up to me and just say "if you ever want to have sex, use a condom! Seriously....just cover your pecker in a rubber, but if you want to stay chaste that's fine...but you don't have to." it's so funny! He even told me where he keeps a stash of condoms too, so it's fine

[Booker]

Yea, it gets pretty awkward and she shouldn't really be forcing it. But, do remember that she has good intentions for this, just say "We're already learning this" or something and she'll probably understand.

[BakeBake]

My mom has tried to give me the talk a few times and all i say is i know and walk away, not in a rude way but nicely.

[Avenged]

Just get it over with. it actually helps how close you are with your parents.

[Sean4U]

There are 4 boys in our family and since we were little kids my parents would sort of say things to expect....what was going to happen to our bodies and all....had the official talk from my dad when he caught my brother and i masturbating ....i think he felt it was time....that was when I was 11 and my brother 12....talked to us about the "birds and the bees"....for me since I'm gay not really worried, but they aren't afraid to talk about sex with us and it isn't all that uncomfortable since we have for years.....just let her do her motherly thing ....but tell her too that you are well into puberty and that everything is going well

[Eric57]

I never got "the talk" or anything of the sort during puberty. My suggestion is to just let her give you "the talk." Only because she will continue to bring it up if you don't. Just suck it up, sit down, and let her do the talking. Just my opinion, though.

[Hungman]

whip it out! nah ive never had the talk before they know i know and we are all very open and its all good

[justin123]

Yeah, my dad gave me the talk, but you could just tell your mom you know everything.

[frankrocky]

When your mom asks if you have any pubic hair you should drop your pants and show her.lol. That should end the conversation.lol

[wolf man]

i jus said dad dont i already know about all that crap dont need to hear i agin

[justinglives]

Say "yes???" And "really?" A lot.

[Jaseeee]

Just tell her you don't need the talk, it will save you an awkward conversation..

[Gmw12]

Yeah just tell her you don't need to hear it. You already know this stuff