I got a problem

[Maiden]

my elder sister wants to become something involving fittness (a personal trainer etc) and for this she needs to learn the different muscles, where they are located and how they function,
so now i've been choosen by my mother to sort of a "trainig doll" so she can learn this by looking at me rather then in a book.

problem is that i got cuts on my wrists thighs and ankles, and i don't know how to get out of this.
i can't just say i wont do it, as it wont be a vailid excuse. and i can't tell them about my cuts or that a fucking hate having people looking at my body, even less touching it.

any help to get out of this is most appreciated.

[Desuetude]

Why can't you tell them that you're just not comfortable? Will they not understand?

The only thing I can think of doing is wearing ultra skinny clothes, like latex? :/ Though I don't suppose that's a very good answer. Maybe just telling your sister wouldn't be too bad, ask her to keep it from your Mum. It'll be hard but once it's over it should feel like a weight off your shoulders? With the touching thing I know what that feels like but really, without finding away to get out of it there's not much you can do. Sorry I couldn't be of more help. I hope things go okay.

[Bath]

You can tell her that you don't feel comfortable being looked at or touched. If that doesn't work, I would come clean. It's better to tell the truth beforehand instead of her finding out through pulling up your sleeve.

Believe me I know it's a hell of a lot easier said than done, but it's a tough situation.

Do you have any other siblings? Suggest they do it instead.

[Maiden]

Why can't you tell them that you're just not comfortable? Will they not understand?

The only thing I can think of doing is wearing ultra skinny clothes, like latex? :/ Though I don't suppose that's a very good answer. Maybe just telling your sister wouldn't be too bad, ask her to keep it from your Mum. It'll be hard but once it's over it should feel like a weight off your shoulders? With the touching thing I know what that feels like but really, without finding away to get out of it there's not much you can do. Sorry I couldn't be of more help. I hope things go okay.



You can tell her that you don't feel comfortable being looked at or touched. If that doesn't work, I would come clean. It's better to tell the truth beforehand instead of her finding out through pulling up your sleeve.

Believe me I know it's a hell of a lot easier said than done, but it's a tough situation.

Do you have any other siblings? Suggest they do it instead.

if im going to tell my sister or my mum that i don't feel comfortable with it, then im going to need to go down in detail of how i feel etc, else it will be looked upon as some kind of joke.

i mean, there is no way they can have sensed that there would be anything wrong with how i feel about myself, or what i´ve done to myself. 2 month ago i tried slice a vain and it should of gotten sown as it didn't close upp, i told my mom i dropped a knife (in the bend of the arm) and it made that clean slice right accross the vain, she didn't think that was odd.

no i don't have any other siblings.

thanks for the advise though :wub: