Insecurity about my friendship

[Cicero]

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[FreeFall]

I think you're reading too much into this. She really could just like to have other girl there. Maybe other girl likes you and would be uncomfortable with it being just her and you hanging out. Maybe her boyfriend's not comfortable with her hanging out with you one on one so much. I asked my bf to not hang out with females solo and to bring a guy friend when he hangs out with the female friends, I just don't trust the girls. Maybe she's drifting from you, pull back a little bit too.
You seem very uh, attached to her. You ask how you'll stay friends after hs, when you'll meet up after hs and why you two never hang out alone anymore now that other friend tags along and all that. It's great you value the friendship but that seems a teensy bit needy to me.

[Cicero]

I think you're reading too much into this. She really could just like to have other girl there. Maybe other girl likes you and would be uncomfortable with it being just her and you hanging out. Maybe her boyfriend's not comfortable with her hanging out with you one on one so much. I asked my bf to not hang out with females solo and to bring a guy friend when he hangs out with the female friends, I just don't trust the girls. Maybe she's drifting from you, pull back a little bit too.
You seem very uh, attached to her. You ask how you'll stay friends after hs, when you'll meet up after hs and why you two never hang out alone anymore now that other friend tags along and all that. It's great you value the friendship but that seems a teensy bit needy to me.

No, this is a new bf. she was like this before him. She has always been like this, even from the first time we hung out after school. We've known each other for 5 years or so. But she's actually improving the friendship so I know it's not drifting. We eat lunch together all the time alone. Hmmm, I just had a self realization, we eat lunch alone, yet she feels akward hanging out alone after school...

[FreeFall]

Uuuh I'm not sure what to make of this new info. So when you eat lunch alone, are you alone alone? Or are you surrounded by classmates at other tables? I dunno maybe she just doesn't like to have single one on one time with you. That's weird. I'm really at a loss of any ideas about this. Good luck after hs? I'm so just like...huh at this moment. Very odd.

[Cicero]

Uuuh I'm not sure what to make of this new info. So when you eat lunch alone, are you alone alone? Or are you surrounded by classmates at other tables? I dunno maybe she just doesn't like to have single one on one time with you. That's weird. I'm really at a loss of any ideas about this. Good luck after hs? I'm so just like...huh at this moment. Very odd.

Yeah, like we eat in a hallway away from the lunchroom

[FreeFall]

So in public she's totally fine in being alone with you.
In private, she's not.

I really can't make heads or tails of that. You could try talking to her again if you want, not sure how to even give anything that sounds like advice there though, sorry. Or you can just throw your hands up in the air and say whatever. Ugh I'm so confused. I hope you get the answers you're looking for man, sorry I couldn't help.

[ImCoolBeans]

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