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LoveMe_HateMe
September 3rd, 2012, 11:22 AM
Ex put a message on my facebook wall for my birthday and i messaged him because something was bothering me about how he was acting and only replying to certain inboxes. He was saying all this stuff about how much he had messed up and how much it hurt him, and how the trust has shattered (blah blah)(bearing in mind it was down to his actions that broke my trust in him, which eventually lead to me breaking up with him) but he started to talking and then sent me Adele's song "Someone like you" and he said that's the best song that describes the "situation" and I have no idea what to make of it...

Someone help. Please. It's confusing me...

Sorry for the long winded text but in a rush >_>

Zarakly
September 3rd, 2012, 11:47 AM
Maybe he wants to get back with you? I know me and my ex went on and off for a few years and we still are friends today. SO he could be trying to get back together or just apologizing to you. Maybe he still wants to be friends?

LoveMe_HateMe
September 3rd, 2012, 12:37 PM
I don't know if I can trust what he's saying, because I don't know if he means what he says or if he's just saying what he thinks I want to hear.

I'd never get back with him, 1) guys aren't really my thing anymore 2) he broke my trust way to much and 3) I'm not sure I want him back in my life.

DerBear
September 3rd, 2012, 06:45 PM
Ex put a message on my facebook wall for my birthday and i messaged him because something was bothering me about how he was acting and only replying to certain inboxes. He was saying all this stuff about how much he had messed up and how much it hurt him, and how the trust has shattered (blah blah)(bearing in mind it was down to his actions that broke my trust in him, which eventually lead to me breaking up with him) but he started to talking and then sent me Adele's song "Someone like you" and he said that's the best song that describes the "situation" and I have no idea what to make of it...

Someone help. Please. It's confusing me...

Sorry for the long winded text but in a rush >_>

I am slightly confused as he seems to sending weird signals. However, if I was to take a stab in the dark I would say maybe he wants to get back with you or is feeling guilty about something.

I don't know if I can trust what he's saying, because I don't know if he means what he says or if he's just saying what he thinks I want to hear.

I'd never get back with him, 1) guys aren't really my thing anymore 2) he broke my trust way to much and 3) I'm not sure I want him back in my life.

I think in regards to getting back with him, you have already made up your mind. You clearly don't trust this guy and like you said, guys ain't your thing anymore. You know yourself only you can make this choice but you have spelled it out for yourself, you don't want to get back with him.

I think what you should do is simply tell him straight out that you don't have any feelings for him. Either that or ignore this message and wait until you know for sure that he does want to get back with you, then set him straight by telling him you don't want to go out with him. As you need to be clear as you don't want to send him any kind of mixed message.

Good Luck!

LoveMe_HateMe
September 4th, 2012, 03:22 PM
I don't think he wants to get back with me... Well I know he does, but he'd never try it as he said to me that my girlfriend and I "make a beautiful couple"... And she hates his guts so he knows not to even try.

I think he does feel guilty because of all the shit that's happened because he did one of two things I had asked him never EVER to do.

He seems to have gone back to ignoring my inboxes again, so I think I'm safe... For now anyway.