Girl problems? i think, not sure what to call it

[TheKidThatIsOnAboat]

Hey guys so like i think i'm over reacting but there is this girl that i like very much and every time i ask her if she wants to hangout she says yes so the next day comes i text her "hey want to hang out now" and she says no i cant i'm really sorry. this is happening every time i ask her. Also sometimes she says i cant hang out right now but later i can and i say OK just text me when you can, she never texts back. Finally i'm the only one that texts first she never texts first. so i was just wondering if i'm over reacting or what, this will be my first girlfriend so yeah need advice. thanks!!!!

[Moai]

That might be her way of telling you to back off a bit. Try just having conversations with her, don't go straight into asking to hang out.

[DerBear]

Friends like this really aren't worth getting upset over. However my one question...Have you tried talking to her?

Like the thing is, do you know her lifestyle or situation. I have made plans with friends in the past and then had to cancel and vice versa. I think it is sometimes something that just happens.

I think however, in this case, she is maybe hinting to you she is not interested or is maybe getting tired of being asked to hang out all the time. Some people are not greatly social. I used to never go out because I was not a social person. People made plans with me but then I would cancel for various reasons. Simply because I felt very un-social.

My simple advice is communication, talk to her because if you don't then you will never sort this issue, just text her and ask why, or if you can get a face to face meeting, maybe at school or something. Just talk to her and attempt to sort out the problem. However don't become hostile. Remain calm and accept whatever answer she gives you, let her speak and then you respond.

I hope everything works out for you.

[horizonlooker]

I've learned the hard way. It's better to talk to her in person, then you can know for real what it going on. It's easy to hide behind a phone.
If it keeps happening, I say move on.

[randomalien]

Ummm just try to have a conversation with her.
What places or where do ye want to hang out with her?
The best type of place is where ye can talk because that is when ye can get to fully see their personality.

[randomalien]

Ummm just try to have a conversation with her.
What places or where do ye want to hang out with her?
The best type of place is where ye can talk because that is when ye can get to fully see their personality.

[Thepolice5291]

Talk to her, Don t Just ask to hang out all the time, Talk to her In person- It may be hard but try to keep your feelings out of the way for a week, make her laugh

[Xandle]

Try talking to her first, and try to spot if she's just being nice or if she's properly being herself - if she's jus being nice then maybe she's not interested?