My Friend

[matt46]

So i have this friend and shes a girl. she is really nice and all but i dont have and feelings for her besides really good friends. i know she has a crush on me cause not only did we already have this discussion but she always get close to me and touches my arm and stuff. BUT heres the kicker, im gay and no feelings will ever turn up like that. its not like im leading her on its i just dont know what to do.

[Silver Assassin]

Better being honest than sorry later. I'd recommend telling her, but say you still want to be friends

[Human]

tell her :P

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Tell her, honestly but nicely.

[Coolboi]

we'll telling the truth is best you no but will she tell everone you no ? maybe say I like you for a friend an always be your best friend .

[matt46]

i hope you guys are right

[StoneColdNicky]

Does she know that you're gay? Maybe she thinks she can change you. But what people have said is true. You'll need to have an uncomfortable conversation one day, and however it ends, the sooner you get it over with, the sooner you can deal with it and get back to how it was before, even if it takes a while.

[whatevva]

U have 2 tell her..but dont expect her to stay friends...i wouldnt be able to

[OregonStateDude]

I went through this exact same thing with this girl in my math class last year. She was always touching me, giving me little gifts like cookies and stuff like that. I loved the attention, but I just couldn't tell her I was gay; I was too afraid.

[Sean4U]

If you're not out or ready to be outted, then I would just continue to be friends......If you are out or ready to come out, then be honest with her....friends are really important and if she like you, then she'll still like you but in a different way