View Full Version : This really annoys me...
Zarakly
September 2nd, 2012, 02:14 PM
I was talking to my "best friend" a few mins ago. He was talking about how he wanted a premium account for tf2. my dad just recently had knee surgery, and yesterday he could've died because his blood was to thick. He has a fake aorta and heart valve. Anyway, he wants me to go onto his account and buy him stuff so he get a premium. He doesn't care at all about my dad or how we are right now. Only him self. I keep saying I don't know if we will because he just had surgery and stuff and could've died, but he still is just like "how about tomorrow then?" And thats all he keeps caring about. This really is annoying me now. After he said "How about tomorrow" I replied with "..." and he replied after with "k thanks". I don't know if I am going to buy him anything after all. He hasn't done anything for me. He only wants me to keep giving him stuff, he needs help with school. DOes he bother to try? No he goes and plays minecraft or some other game. He really need to understand that there is better things to do than just sit and play games all day. Sorry for the long wall of text, I jsut had to come and say this.
StoppingTime
September 2nd, 2012, 02:22 PM
You have no reason to be sorry.
People like this, sometimes, don't even understand that what they are doing is actually wrong. This may seem impossible, but if nobody ever calls them out on it, then they'll just keep on doing it.
Call him, don't just text him. People can say virtually anything behind text on a screen, but when you actually talk to them, they have a very different attitude.
Call him, and say something like, "I can't/won't do this for you. My father just had life threatening surgery, and you text me asking if I can buy/do things for you." Or something like that. If he is anything of a decent person, he should understand, and back off. If he doesn't, then he isn't even worth your time.
Machinegun
September 2nd, 2012, 02:30 PM
It's not your fault..so don't say u are sorry
You shouldn't buy a premium account to him, he sounds like a selfish dude
Wish u the best to ur dad
Zarakly
September 2nd, 2012, 02:38 PM
Thanks guys, I think he's doing okay now. Just still really sore because of it. I told him and he didn't respond so yeah. I think next time I go to his house it might be the last. We aren't really friends anymore, seems as though he only talks to me when he wants something. I need to get my snuggie back from his house :p haha
Avenida105
September 3rd, 2012, 01:16 PM
You have no reason to be sorry.
People like this, sometimes, don't even understand that what they are doing is actually wrong. This may seem impossible, but if nobody ever calls them out on it, then they'll just keep on doing it.
Call him, don't just text him. People can say virtually anything behind text on a screen, but when you actually talk to them, they have a very different attitude.
Call him, and say something like, "I can't/won't do this for you. My father just had life threatening surgery, and you text me asking if I can buy/do things for you." Or something like that. If he is anything of a decent person, he should understand, and back off. If he doesn't, then he isn't even worth your time.
What he said
Sleepy Raisin
September 3rd, 2012, 01:49 PM
Thanks guys, I think he's doing okay now. Just still really sore because of it. I told him and he didn't respond so yeah. I think next time I go to his house it might be the last. We aren't really friends anymore, seems as though he only talks to me when he wants something. I need to get my snuggie back from his house :p haha
Haha, yeah! You get that snuggie and stop hangin' out with him. If it were me(and its not) even when he asked for stuff i wouldnt respond, or tell him to quit asking for free stuff
Cicero
September 3rd, 2012, 02:10 PM
If he's not willing to help himself, no one can expect to help him. Just tell him straight forward how you feel about the situation. Say "I feel like your acting very selfish, I always help you with school yet you do nothing except play video games. You expect me to help you on your account, yet you wont take the time and courtesy to ask how much dad is?! All you care about is yourself and your selfish." or something to that effect. Sometimes, people don't realize they're acting selfish until someone points it out.
fast8
September 3rd, 2012, 02:17 PM
^^^^^ yea what he said^^^^^^^^^^^
TigerBoy
September 4th, 2012, 05:09 AM
Wow I have never met anyone like this and I hope I never do.
Ditch him. Ditch him fast. I'd normally say give him a chance, but I can't understand this person so I'd want him faaaaar away.
Nathan Numberless
September 4th, 2012, 07:21 AM
I would just hack his account and change his password. To something like 'imadouche7'
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