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horizonlooker
September 1st, 2012, 08:04 PM
So, I'm currently confused as to who I am sexually. I know I'm attracted to men and women, and I find A LOT of guys my age attractive. I work at the mall, and when I people watch (don't judge, it can be a lot of fun if work is slow) I see a lot of really hot, attractive guys, more so than females. It's not like the girls are ugly, I guess I just don't notice them..
Anyways, I have a friend who's gay, and I feel that the only way i'll truly know if i'm bisexual is if I was with a guy. We talk a lot and he's told me about his experiences and whatnot and I want to have that too. I guess what i'm saying is, how exactly do you go up to a guy and are like, "hey you're cute lets hook up"
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Levy
September 1st, 2012, 08:09 PM
You could always just say, "hey you're cute lets hook up"..

But really, just ask if he wants to date. If he says yes, just ask him out.

horizonlooker
September 1st, 2012, 08:26 PM
You could always just say, "hey you're cute lets hook up"..

But really, just ask if he wants to date. If he says yes, just ask him out.

I've already told him I think he's cute and the response was "thats cuteee, thanks"

Ambrosia
September 1st, 2012, 10:58 PM
You don't, that's how. Stop trying to hook-up with people, and concentrate on getting to know yourself. Get a date, not a hook-up. It's sillyness to just want sex.

Anyways, requesting ideas on how to hook up isn't allowed here. :locked: