Burning desire for a girlfriend...

[Cicero]

I have a burning desire for a girlfriend, yet I'm a bit more sexually attracted to guys. If I were gay or what not. Then I wouldn't have a burning desire for a girlfriend, right? Like, I have no desire to have a boyfriend. Only a desire to experiment. I've been told that I haven't had enough 'exposure' to judge whether I want a boyfriend or girlfriend. But I know, I only want a girlfriend. I've just been waiting, till I sort things out, like me getting strong enough. The reason behind this, is because I'll be able to get a girl I'd really want, and so I know I could defend both her and I.

[Mortal Coil]

Maybe the only reason you want a girlfriend is because that's what the media has told you that successful guys have. Kind of like how, even though curves are healthier, girls would rather be skinny- it's the media. Or it's that you're a heteroromantic homosexual (emotionally you like girls, sexually you like guys) or something like that.

[Alliegator]

You say a bit more? Maybe you're just stuck in the role of bf and girlfriend, just try experimenting, as out a girl, ask out a guy see how it goes?

[dontfiguremeout]

Dude, it's just the hormones, and at this stage, both guys and girls will get that phase where they are attracted to the "same sex." But really in that stage it's more about to compare and also see what you might look like older or just to see if your in the right track. Everyone has it, and there are people who may never say they haven't, but they don't wanna loose their reputation, and that's completely fine, because it's their personal business, not anyone else's. I know for me, I'm ending that stage. I'm getting more into girls now. But yeah dude, it's normal. And when your in this stage it's easy for people to label themselves. Label yourself when puberty is done, and the hormones died down!

[ImCoolBeans]

OP request. :locked: