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Caver
August 31st, 2012, 06:10 PM
This guy I really like, he lives in Spain so far away. But he goes to this camp every year called pueblo ingles, for 2 weeks in spain. I want to go next year to meet him but i'm not allowed. I'd love to meet more of him and see him...
how is this possible when he's so far away?:(

Keyson
September 1st, 2012, 03:16 AM
I'm in a long distance relationship right now, though she's in the same country.

I'm assuming right now that you are close friends and either both of you or just you want to become more than that. However you live far from one another.
So without dragging this out there are only a few things you can do;

-] Stay connected with him and try to figure out a way you can meet him in the future.--] Just stay friends


Long distance relationships usually dont last any longer than a year, but that depends on A LOT of factors. So for now all I can really say is Go For It. ^_^
Either you Pass or fail. If you pass you've gained someone in your life, if you fail you never really lost anything.

--Please do not post in all red.---

Caver
September 1st, 2012, 06:22 AM
I'm in a long distance relationship right now, though she's in the same country.

I'm assuming right now that you are close friends and either both of you or just you want to become more than that. However you live far from one another.
So without dragging this out there are only a few things you can do;

-] Stay connected with him and try to figure out a way you can meet him in the future.--] Just stay friends


Long distance relationships usually dont last any longer than a year, but that depends on A LOT of factors. So for now all I can really say is Go For It. ^_^
Either you Pass or fail. If you pass you've gained someone in your life, if you fail you never really lost anything.

We're very very good and close friends right now but want to take it further maybe, and get to know each other more:)

Noxail
September 2nd, 2012, 12:10 AM
Well, honestly, long distance relationships don't normally work out well, and although you may be close friends, there is no 'safe' way to contact someone like this over the internet by yourself. I suggest keeping your friendship over the interwebs and not trying to contact him physically, and certainly not if you are not allowed to attend a camp he goes to. Otherwise, wait until you are eighteen and then meet him, when parents are not an issue.

Ambrosia
September 2nd, 2012, 12:34 AM
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Human
September 2nd, 2012, 05:31 PM
you've got to be realistic, will it ever happen? and will it be worth it? if you're not allowed, there isn't a way.
long distance doesn't work out a lot.

Machinegun
September 2nd, 2012, 07:43 PM
Maybe you could learn some spanish to feel closer to him
I speak spanish so if you need help just ask me

Mortal Coil
September 2nd, 2012, 08:46 PM
Have you ever met this boy before, in real life? Don't rush into this if you aren't sure that he's real. Assuming you're 100% sure he's real, best of luck, but don't be surprised of it doesn't work out.

Avenida105
September 3rd, 2012, 12:59 PM
This guy I really like, he lives in Spain so far away. But he goes to this camp every year called pueblo ingles, for 2 weeks in spain. I want to go next year to meet him but i'm not allowed. I'd love to meet more of him and see him...
how is this possible when he's so far away?:(

I would say, If it is meant to happen, it will happen, you are not going to know how or why, but things are going to work out perfectly. I've seen distance relationships flourish. My friend met this guy at a doctors convention, and he met this guy from Texas for 6 hours and they fell in love, although his mom disagrees with the relationship and her dad they still skype every single day, and they are dating.

Now you are still very young, and there is no time for love, I have fallen in love once, but it turned out that she was not meant for me :(. But sincerly I don't care if I find love when I'm about to die, as long as its the right person for me. Live your life right now and don't get stressed out of one relation, I mean who knows the right guy might be living in the same street in which you live but you've never met him.

Good luck.

Avenida105
September 3rd, 2012, 01:00 PM
Btw...If you guys are in the euro zone, I'm pretty sure he speaks some English so don't worry about Spanish.

Caver
September 3rd, 2012, 04:46 PM
Btw...If you guys are in the euro zone, I'm pretty sure he speaks some English so don't worry about Spanish.

he's originally british but living in spain