Confused and in need of some advice.

[horizonlooker]

First off, HELLO! How are you guys?

One night I had a dream about my cowoker (he's really sexy, btw) and it got me thinking. In the dream him and I were in a relationship together. This isn't the first dream I've had about guys. I used to never think that I would be interested in a guy, but now the idea isn't so bad. It's actually not bad at all.

Thinking about a guy in a sexual way really turns me on (as it would if I were thinking about a girl) and there are a couple of guys that I really like. I'm not sure if the feelings are pure sexual, or if there is some emotion behind it. I would like to think there is, though.

I've never been with a male sexually, but I have with a female. Right now I'm thinking I could be bisexual, but I don't think I'll really be able to tell until I'm with a guy sexually.

What do you guys think? Am I just a hormonal driven teen and this will all pass? Have you been in this situation before?

[Desuetude]

If you're thinking about guys in the way of having a real relationship with them then I don't think that's just hormones. I think that before you know you would need to try out a relationship with a guy, test your feelings because you might find that they could be completely different than when you're just thinking about being in a relationship.

I would say you're Bi but honestly there is no need to label yourself. You be whoever you want, like whoever you want to like.

[Noirtier]

First off, HELLO! How are you guys?

One night I had a dream about my cowoker (he's really sexy, btw) and it got me thinking. In the dream him and I were in a relationship together. This isn't the first dream I've had about guys. I used to never think that I would be interested in a guy, but now the idea isn't so bad. It's actually not bad at all.

Thinking about a guy in a sexual way really turns me on (as it would if I were thinking about a girl) and there are a couple of guys that I really like. I'm not sure if the feelings are pure sexual, or if there is some emotion behind it. I would like to think there is, though.

I've never been with a male sexually, but I have with a female. Right now I'm thinking I could be bisexual, but I don't think I'll really be able to tell until I'm with a guy sexually.

What do you guys think? Am I just a hormonal driven teen and this will all pass? Have you been in this situation before?

Frankly, you seem to be sexually/physically attracted to guys. Not only that, but you can envision yourself in a relationship with a guy and find it to be good. That you can accept that fact seems to me like you are bisexual. Not only that but it seems to me like you may even want to try it. I am not the arbitor of all truth, but it seems very much to me that you are bisexual, considering you have an interest in women as well. I hope that I have helped in some way!

[dontfiguremeout]

It's the hormones dude! Every guy goes through this stage! And you just happen to go through this stage at a later age, which is completely fine! Umm honestly don't label yourself right now, and really don't do anything with a guy right now, till the hormones died down, and puberty is coming to an end! If you don't, you will mess up, and think about guys which will add on to you, unlike if you haven't done anything with a guy, you will most likely end up being straight. Not saying some guys don't. Some guys no matter what just end up gay, which is completely fine (I ain't a hater!) Like right now that stage died down for me, and I'm now more into girls which is picking up at a normal speed! If you need anymore help, don't be afraid to pm me!

[AppealToReason]

Honestly, I wouldn't be bothered by it. Just be open minded and go through life normally. Nothing any of us say can change who you are. If you don't know who you are yet, then that's your business to find out. Like I said, go through life normally, and if you meet a guy who you actually have feelings for, sexually, emotionally, or both, and he has them back, go with it. If you start to feel something deeper than just sex with him, hey, you might be bi. If not, then it's just hormones.
Either way, it's for you to find out on your own.

[TigerBoy]

+1 for the 'go with the flow' and 'screw labels' sentiments. Its not hormones as such, they are just a catalyst to set you off thinking and discovering sexuality, they don't change what it is.

So yeah, give it a go with a nice boy sometime : if it works for you, great, if it doesn't maybe he was the wrong boy or maybe boys aren't for you. I bet you can have a lot of fun trying to find out, and as long as you are honest with your lovers, no harm no foul. (I don't know what that actually means but I understand that Americans say it at times like this, so hopefully it is soothing and helpful. I should probably sleep)..

[horizonlooker]

I plan on riding the train of life and letting things take me where they go. I mean, that's all we can really do, right?