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Mark97
August 30th, 2012, 09:39 PM
do you guys think that its possible for me to be gay or bi but only for one guy? i have really strong feelings for him but i dont consider myself gay or bi. like im not sexually or emotionally attracted to guys in general (just him) and i definitely definitely like girls. so yeah my question would be can i be bisexual just for one guy? if tht makes any sense lol confusing situation so hard to explain. thanks for any help :)
btw he is gay and in love with me. and we met online so if you were gonna say something abt experimenting with him then sadly i cant do that lol
(i know i posted this in boys puberty too but thts bcuz i only just saw this forum now lol)

Steffanie2020
August 30th, 2012, 10:41 PM
If you truly feel your not gay it COULD be its just a phase or you are bisexual. The only way to find out is to experiment, you could be bisexual

RCT109
August 30th, 2012, 10:56 PM
Mark i would say its possible, but to tell you the truth this is the first time ive heard of it.

maybe you are just bi and have feelings for this guy and thats how its starting off or it could be that you are only atrracted to this one and only guy

shawn

OregonStateDude
August 30th, 2012, 11:21 PM
Yeah, I have heard of this before. So I would label you as a selective pansexual. It's just a silly label anyways, we like who we like. :)

justinglives
August 30th, 2012, 11:39 PM
Ure not gay. Or bi. Or str8. Or anything else. None of are.
Ure **HUMAN**

AXZ34e81b949e
August 31st, 2012, 12:12 PM
edit: fuck y'all

TigerBoy
September 4th, 2012, 07:31 AM
do you guys think that its possible for me to be gay or bi but only for one guy? i have really strong feelings for him but i dont consider myself gay or bi. like im not sexually or emotionally attracted to guys in general (just him) and i definitely definitely like girls. so yeah my question would be can i be bisexual just for one guy? if tht makes any sense lol confusing situation so hard to explain. thanks for any help :)
btw he is gay and in love with me. and we met online so if you were gonna say something abt experimenting with him then sadly i cant do that lol
(i know i posted this in boys puberty too but thts bcuz i only just saw this forum now lol)

Wait, you met online? Have you met in real life at all?

I'm just wondering if you've skyped and stuff (as in, sexiness involved), if so maybe the online stuff makes it feel safer for you than in real life. I wonder if its possible you could be gay for other boys (not all, but perhaps you have a type), but you are understandably nervous about allowing your feelings out.

I wouldn't sweat it, but allow yourself to be yourself. Hopefully that way you'll find true love with the right person, whatever gender. Its got to be about what makes you happy, living your life and not the one other people think you should have.

billia
September 4th, 2012, 09:50 AM
Ignore the labels. Love can happen anywhere and with anyone. If you love him then you love him. That makes you... you.

Wonder.
September 4th, 2012, 05:03 PM
I'm gay and had a "crush" (quotes for lack of a better word) on a girl before. Just because I once liked one girl doesn't make me bisexual though. I doubt it works differently for someone who classifies themselves as straight. Just don't even worry about it. It could be that you're bi, or maybe you're straight and just so happen to like a guy. It doesn't really make a difference at all.

Nathan Numberless
September 4th, 2012, 07:46 PM
We are all selective pansexuals. FIND IT IN YOUR HEART 0_0 0_0

West Coast Sheriff
September 4th, 2012, 07:54 PM
U might be a selective panasexual

cassy95
September 6th, 2012, 01:44 PM
Oh yeah! I totally understand. She was the first girl I made out with. I didn't know her well. We were at a movie with other friends. We stayed behind and made out. Even now, I have my girls, but there is just something about her that I can't resist.

Ritz96
September 16th, 2012, 03:07 AM
Ok let's cut the bull about the "inner you" and all that rubbish.
I wouldn't be worried if I were you, sometimes u get over this one guy, and go straight back to liking girls :)

StephanieSanders
September 16th, 2012, 05:02 AM
If your attracted to a boy, your atleast bi-sexual. Being a lesbian like i am doesent mean i want every girl thats around, i have a type. And the same goes for straights and others. So yes it makes you gay or bi, but you can call it experimentation if you want to :D