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Mark97
August 30th, 2012, 09:36 PM
do you guys think that its possible for me to be gay or bi but only for one guy? i have really strong feelings for him but i dont consider myself gay or bi. like im not sexually or emotionally attracted to guys in general (just him) and i definitely definitely like girls. so yeah my question would be can i be bisexual just for one guy? if tht makes any sense lol confusing situation so hard to explain. thanks for any help
btw he is gay and in love with me. and we met online so if you were gonna say something abt experimenting with him then sadly i cant do that lol

SuperSuraj
August 30th, 2012, 09:44 PM
I would have to say a bromance... it's perfectly normal. I'm gay and I've had crushes on girls and what not. i would think it's pretty normal lol

JDubs
August 30th, 2012, 09:48 PM
Well, i certainly wouldnt say your gay or bi if its just one guy. It could very well be that its just like liking a girl, except hes a guy, but really, a persons a person and if hes gay, then that typically means he's more like a girl anyway.

jaycee.broham
August 30th, 2012, 10:19 PM
If ya love him, ya love him... No way around that

dontfiguremeout
August 30th, 2012, 10:31 PM
Hmmm, well because of hormones going crazy at this time, you don't want to label yourself right now, but I would advise you if it's just online, to not go any further than talking. Don't even go into an online relationship, because if you can't see each other, then what's the point! Plus maybe it's better to date when your hormones died down, so you know which gender you would want to date.

cpkid09
August 30th, 2012, 11:00 PM
i think you have a bromance

Mysterious Skin
August 31st, 2012, 02:58 AM
This is textbook curiosity. When you go through puberty, same sex attractions (On a relatively small scale) Are more normal than you think. It will most likely pass, and if it doesn't you may be bi.

companioncube
August 31st, 2012, 03:04 AM
This is textbook curiosity. When you go through puberty, same sex attractions (On a relatively small scale) Are more normal than you think. It will most likely pass, and if it doesn't you may be bi.

Hooker is right, its perfectly normal and you shouldn't label yourself yet at this stage. Yes, it happens more than you think with guys like us at this age and it will pass.

All is good, bro!

Nellerin
August 31st, 2012, 05:14 AM
No point in worrying about what sexuality you are right now. Curiosity as a teen will mess with you a bit so you never really know if you are gay/bi until after the teen years end.

Plus it is only for one person so I would not label that as anything out of the ordinary for even a lot of straight teen guys.