View Full Version : Cant keep erection
furlone
August 30th, 2012, 09:13 PM
So I have a question. I have lot my virginity about a month ago, and I had no problem putting on a condom and having sex, I would get soft sometimes, but I would regain the erection. The past 2 times we tried, I had an erection and I put on the condom and shortly after it was too soft to do anything, but I always lost the erection... what could be the problem? Btw, the past 2 times, we had a limited ammount of time to have sex, if that could influence anything. Please State your opinions, anything I could do to stop losing the erection? She can't get pills yet as her mom doesnt know.., and I am 17.
Athlete15
August 30th, 2012, 10:18 PM
Try waiting until you have more time and have more foreplay. Also don't masterbate on a day you plan on having sex if you are having trouble keeping it up.
furlone
August 30th, 2012, 11:02 PM
Any more opinions? I would love to hear everyones input. And ill try that atlete15.
PinkFloyd
August 30th, 2012, 11:07 PM
Well next time, you might want to do that when you have more time. Maybe the very thought of being cought is making you soft.
I have no idea what the side effects are, but ever think of taking viagra?That could help.
Mysterious Skin
August 31st, 2012, 02:55 AM
Believe it or not, Nervousness or knowing you have limited time can affect your erection. Don't panic or feel stressed or else you may not feel as confident.
Nellerin
August 31st, 2012, 05:17 AM
All of the above is correct. Just be more relaxed and let yourself be comfortable with that person.
Masturbating on the same day could be a big factor in losing the erection so I don't recommend doing it.
Also, no do not try Viagra at this age like one of the people said. Although it might technically help, your issue is not due to Erectile Dysfunction (from what I can tell) so Viagra isn't the route to take.
furlone
September 5th, 2012, 10:16 PM
Thank you everyone ;)
furlone
September 6th, 2012, 09:19 PM
Bump! Did not work, we had a shit load of time and I got hard, but I lost it once again. She tried anything to bring it back to life... lol it didnt work. This is embarassing and weird, should I go to a doctor??!! Im desperate !
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