my best friend ditched me for her new boyfriend..

[Gazmo]

My best friend got with her new boyfriend a few days ago and its like shes completely forgotten i exist.
I have depression, which she knows about and all that, but thats not the point really. although i was having a really bad day which she also know about, she was having a bad day too so i dontknow if im being selfish.
its just that she keeps saying she'll meet up with me but she always either takes her boyfriend or calls me last minuet saying shes gonna see him instead.

i feel bad for feeling annoyed, but i just didnt think she would drop me like that for a guy :confused:

[DerBear]

I hate when this kind of stuff happens. You generally see it all the time when you become older.

To be honest the only thing I can say is tell your best friend that you feel really ditched. It is understandable that they will spend more time together but to be honest ditching your own friends for a boyfriend just ain't a nice thing.

Generally I find that you need to talk to your friend and bring this to there attention because sometimes they don't realize they are doing it or don't think you mind, when actually you do. Speak to her and I am sure you can talk things out and in the end if she does not listen then I suggest you find someone else to hang about with if you can and when the relationship falls through she might realize she has lost more than a boyfriend but an actual friend.

[Dirtbiker199]

I hate when this kind of stuff happens. You generally see it all the time when you become older.

To be honest the only thing I can say is tell your best friend that you feel really ditched. It is understandable that they will spend more time together but to be honest ditching your own friends for a boyfriend just ain't a nice thing.

Generally I find that you need to talk to your friend and bring this to there attention because sometimes they don't realize they are doing it or don't think you mind, when actually you do. Speak to her and I am sure you can talk things out and in the end if she does not listen then I suggest you find someone else to hang about with if you can and when the relationship falls through she might realize she has lost more than a boyfriend but an actual friend.

Well said. I have to add one thing.. In this day and age its rare to find couples that last very long. Nothing against your friend and her boyfriend, but I mean think about it people are together maybe a month and break up like nothing happened. So, like Silver Assassin said, talk to your friend about it. Talking to people about things like that generally do help :).

[FreeFall]

Tread lightly here.

Definitely speak to her but understand, the person she's dating is most likely going to take precedence over you.
Pick your words carefully, I used to have a friend that said I'd rather save my boyfriend in a fire than her and we'd probably break up after 5 months. That was the last time I spoke to her, and my bf and I are headed to two years strong. I'm not saying when people start dating that they should ignore everyone else's existence, but the person you're giving the title of significant other to is the one that comes first.

[Gazmo]

thankyou guys :) ill talk to her, but ill try not to say anything too bad, becuase i dont wanna fall out with her or anything

[dedee]

You are not been selfish. Im going through the same thing right now and its the seconnnd time my best friend ditches me for her boyfriend.. But hhey Im planning to teach her the lesson I didnt taught her last time. This time when she breaks up with her boyfriend and tries to hang out with me again im going to ignore her for at least a week so she learns that chicks come before dicks. Because when the boyfriend is gone theonly person you can turn to is your friends and they are not going to wait for you forever.
Talk to her also and see what she answers mine told me I was mean because I implied that she only talked to me when she doesnt have a boyfriend or they break up but i guess we are still best friends and shell learn even if its the hard way

[West Coast Sheriff]

I hate when this kind of stuff happens. You generally see it all the time when you become older.

To be honest the only thing I can say is tell your best friend that you feel really ditched. It is understandable that they will spend more time together but to be honest ditching your own friends for a boyfriend just ain't a nice thing.

Generally I find that you need to talk to your friend and bring this to there attention because sometimes they don't realize they are doing it or don't think you mind, when actually you do. Speak to her and I am sure you can talk things out and in the end if she does not listen then I suggest you find someone else to hang about with if you can and when the relationship falls through she might realize she has lost more than a boyfriend but an actual friend.

Sorry, it happens sometimes

[Cicero]

I'm feeling the same way. But try to get together, even if it means hanging out with her boyfriend. Everyone does this, especially when they're 'in love'. She's probably gonna be like this for the first few months, but then it'll calm down.

[Loreley]

That had happened to me too. Don't worry. In my case, I stopped being friends with this girl. Maybe you feel betrayed now, but life is going on.