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[VictoriaGotaSecret]

people in my family always ask me if i was ever sexually abused, like they know something i dont. like they know that i was but i cant remember and they wont tell me. sometimes i feel like the way my dad acts when he asks that question is that he did sexually abuse me and hes asking to make sure i dont remember. im confused and i need help.

[StoppingTime]

This really comes down to how much you trust your father. If you do, then I don't think you have anything to worry about in this situation. He is probably just looking out for you, maybe a little more than most parents would, but not necessarily implying anything.
If you've had past troubles and conflicts with him, however, then I wouldn't be as sure. If you were too young to remember anything, then of course, you wouldn't know that it happend. However, I don't really see why he would ask you this, if, something really did happen. Then, he would be giving you the idea that something did happen, and if, for whatever sick and twisted reason he did something and never told you, I don't think he'd outright say it, just to make sure you don't remember.

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

my dad is not a friend or trust worthy person

[dontfiguremeout]

I wouldn't worry about it! To be honest if you were sexually abused, it would have been such a big thing that traumatized you that you would know forever! And because your kinda confused about it, I don't think you were.