How to get to know a guy in school you don't know

[swedishboy96]

Hi, I have a pretty big issue. I would like to start by saying that I'm bisexual, but interested mostly in guys at the moment... Well, I'm 16, I'm a boy and I live in Sweden too.
All right, so 1 week ago I began at my new school, where I hope that I will be accepted for who I am and will spend the next 3 years of my life. During my Spanish class I noticed a very nice looking guy staring at my once; i couldn't let this chance disappear, so even I began to look at him. Sometimes he would notice me while I looked at him and the other way around, for about 20 minutes. I even felt something weird inside of me every time I caught him looking at me. He sat on the other side of the classroom, so i didn't got the right opportunity to talk to him, but here's the problem. I don't even know this guy, he doesn't go in my class (but we have Spanish together) and it would feel so awkward to get rejected from him. He talks a little like a "girl", I mean the way he pronounces the words and the way he stares at people while he talks to them. So I think he might be bi or even gay, but how do I start? I really like this guy and i would like to get to know him somehow; I sent a friend request on facebook but he hasn't accepted it yet. Please, what do I do?:what:

[cassy95]

Make sure you are near him before or after class. Just catch his eye and say hi! - or whatever you say in Sweden. You don't have to be in a hurry to get close. If you figure he is interested in more conversation, ask him about his other classes or even tell him you saw his fb.

[SamB]

Exactly what cassy said, just say hello to him one day and just be like I'm new here and want to get to know people and just see where it goes

[DerBear]

To be honest this is more Relationship and Dating,

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[RunnerForLife]

Just start talking to him. Don't rush it and take your time. Ask him a question during Spanish or catch him in between classes and say hey. Just give it time. I've had to do the same thing and it worked out for me. Just give it time.

[swedishboy96]

Well, the thing is that our teacher gave us places to sit so I do not have the opportunity to talk to him during spanish as we don't sit near to each other... He is with other friends under the lesson and I feel they don't know about his sexuality but are compleately comfortable with him, maybe he isn't what I think?:what:

[Levy]

Greet him, and just casually talk to him. Befriend him first, don't rush into it. Ask about him, the quickest way to make friends. People love to talk about themselves more than they like to hear about something else.

[Mysterious Skin]

This is exactly the situation i was in a little over a year ago, But he was mean to me when all his friends were around and then when it was class time he would just sit at his desk and look at me. It turns out he did like me, so you should go talk to him, i mean what is there to loose? Introduce yourself and become more involved with him. You never know what could happen.

[Thepolice5291]

Ok, first don't assume he is bi or gay just by the way he talks and looks at people, secondly if you want to get to know him talk to him, out of Spanish class, thirdly don't assume he liked you because he looked at you, it is regular for people to stare at new kids, hope it goes well for you

[deeda95]

just take it sloe, like start by asking him a question between classes and then maybe another another and find times to chat a little at a time and after a while you'll be hanging together

[Matt_2012]

Just say hi to him every now n then.