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Aaron Y
August 27th, 2012, 11:59 PM
I had a sleep over last week at a mate's house. I woke up in the middle of night finding his hand was inside my pants stroking my penis. I pretended to be asleep and just let him continue. I got hard and nearly cum after about 10 minutes but i restrain from cumming coz i did not want to mess out my pant. Luckily he stop at that point. The problem is i am in a dilemma, i think it is wrong but i somehow like the feeling of that..what can i do?

hidden
August 28th, 2012, 12:08 AM
Well what you like you like, but if you don't want it to continue I would recommend talking to him. :)

rodriguez_miker
August 28th, 2012, 12:15 AM
Your best bet will be to talk to your friend and both decide want you want to do. Make sure he understands that you knew he was doing it and do what BOTH of you think is right

jacksonthelan
August 28th, 2012, 02:09 AM
lucky you

SamB
August 28th, 2012, 06:47 AM
It was wrong that he did that and would be classed as sexual assault, however if you liked it why don't you do it while you are both awake, and are both aware of it?

deeda95
August 28th, 2012, 07:20 AM
i would just forget bout it and let it go, he prob didn't mean anything by it was just curious.

Pyro99
August 28th, 2012, 07:53 AM
Lucky you.

frankrocky
August 28th, 2012, 08:29 AM
You need to decide what kind of relationship you want to have with your friend. Then just work it out with him.

Aidan
August 28th, 2012, 08:29 AM
It was wrong that he did that and would be classed as sexual assault, however if you liked it why don't you do it while you are both awake, and are both aware of it?



Sam nails this one right off.


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RunnerForLife
August 28th, 2012, 08:58 AM
I wish that would happen to me! But if you're uncomfortable with it then just talk to him about it.

deathmoonO2
August 28th, 2012, 09:15 AM
You should talk to him why did who did that to you.

TheBigUnit
August 28th, 2012, 01:30 PM
I had a sleep over last week at a mate's house. I woke up in the middle of night finding his hand was inside my pants stroking my penis. I pretended to be asleep and just let him continue. I got hard and nearly cum after about 10 minutes but i restrain from cumming coz i did not want to mess out my pant. Luckily he stop at that point. The problem is i am in a dilemma, i think it is wrong but i somehow like the feeling of that..what can i do?

confront him and just do it together, thts prob id do

davidoff
August 28th, 2012, 03:04 PM
he did it wile you were sleeping and that is wrong
i you feel uncomfortable you should confront him

Stephan
August 28th, 2012, 03:37 PM
You should just talk to him about, since you feel uncomfortable being touched by him.

Athlete15
August 28th, 2012, 04:39 PM
I always read these and think "damn I need to have more sleepovers"

but yeah just talk to him about it. He's probably going to be really embarrassed, but you gotta do it.

Vteenboy 1
August 28th, 2012, 04:41 PM
you should tell him you know what he did

JimmyIsNowAMan
August 28th, 2012, 05:13 PM
he did it wile you were sleeping and that is wrong
i you feel uncomfortable you should confront him
even if you were ok with it, touching you while you're asleep in not right. just talk to him and see what his reason was. maybe he was shy to ask you to see or touch your dick. Once you talk, you'll know what to do.

sieg
August 28th, 2012, 09:17 PM
ask him to do it again if you liked it lol. maybe ask him over for a sleepover for just the two of you? ;) happy trails

dbaler
August 28th, 2012, 09:30 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJVt8kUAm9Q

Maybe this?

OregonStateDude
August 28th, 2012, 10:30 PM
Yeah, he shouldn't be touching your thing without your permission. If I tried that with my best friend, I can guarantee he'd be really pissed off at me.

Gogeta
August 29th, 2012, 03:44 AM
If you liked it wait till the sleep over next time and see if he does it again and then make sure he knows your awake and tell him you dont mind if he keeps going and then you might have a GOOOD mate :) lol

joshstar
August 31st, 2012, 06:21 PM
yea that happend 2 me i woke up and told him 2 go faster it was ace now we wank all the time now try it its fun

randy1837
August 31st, 2012, 10:54 PM
ur lucky i wish that happened 2 me

nice
August 31st, 2012, 11:33 PM
Asked him why he did it and if you liked him tell him you shah to try it but while you're both awake

Michael Anthony
September 1st, 2012, 04:16 AM
i'm with pretty much everyone else
tell him you know he was doing it
and if you liked it tell him you want to do it while you're awake
would be fun having a j/o buddy

Coolboi
September 1st, 2012, 07:17 AM
it was wrong for him to touch you while you were a sleep ! if you liked it an want to do it with him do it together . your not supposed to touch someone when there sleeping you can get in big trouble .

Sean4U
September 1st, 2012, 10:25 AM
I agree with others about it was wrong for him to do what he did, even if he were curious.....but you need to talk to him about it, because if you just let him do it, it seems you were a bit curious too...decide what you want and then tell him you don't want it to happen again, OR, that you'd like to do it together if you feel that is what you both are comfortable with....but in either case....let him know you knew and that it wasn't right for him to do it like that....he should have asked

cpkid09
September 1st, 2012, 10:46 AM
if u feel uncomfortable with it just tell him to stop

Robben
September 1st, 2012, 12:40 PM
I agree with most people in this thread... He shouldn't have touched you while you were asleep, that's just wrong. In any case, I've never had a (guy) friend masturbate me, although at some point I would have been insterested in trying it. But not in my sleep. :)

curiousme
September 1st, 2012, 12:55 PM
Umm.. so he did it when you were sleeping..so i think u should talk to him about it and maybe say (if youre ok with it) if he would like to do it again he needs your permission first but if u dont want him to do it again tell him. If it were me personally i would of woke up and pulled my pants down and just let him keep doing it until i came...

Scottydog
September 2nd, 2012, 12:22 PM
Lucky ;)

saul1026
September 2nd, 2012, 02:55 PM
just confront him about it and ask why he did it

Aidoon123
September 2nd, 2012, 02:59 PM
Lucky! If you enjoyed it ask him if he wants to do it

sharafbio
September 3rd, 2012, 06:46 AM
He knows that you know what he was doing.
You can not just ignore it ,or he will think you liked it THIS way.
Tell him.

sharafbio
September 3rd, 2012, 06:46 AM
He knows that you know what he was doing.
You can not just ignore it ,or he will think you liked it THIS way.
Tell him.

cmh861
September 3rd, 2012, 08:43 AM
I would tell him you know what he was doing. But also tell him that you liked it and would love to do it when your awake

Cole881
September 3rd, 2012, 10:01 PM
Lucky, but if you didnt mind. Then talk to him, maybe yall can work something out!

Row your
September 3rd, 2012, 10:06 PM
I'm jealous of you, if you liked it or didn't like it, just tell him. Being open is the best thing you can do

BakeBake
September 9th, 2012, 04:47 AM
Lucky i wish my friend would do this. Have fun with him by doing it to each other. You guys can even jack off, do what i said before, suck one's dick and even have sex without it being gay. Gay means that you are a guy and want to marry and spend the rest of your life with a guy, as long as you don't want to do that you know that you are not gay. Doing this is fun and a good way to bond and stay in a strong relationship.

Matt_2012
September 11th, 2012, 03:12 AM
You lucky! wish i had a friend that would masterbate me, if you enjoyed it then go for it (:

bbh6496
September 11th, 2012, 12:48 PM
Wish someone would do that to me! Talk to him about it, let him know how you felt about it. He obviously likes you, just figure out if you like him.

Georgey
September 11th, 2012, 01:06 PM
If only that would happen to me :P

Ben_E
September 14th, 2012, 08:54 AM
Talk to your mate about it, and see where it goes. Experimenting is totally normal

LolMeGusta
September 14th, 2012, 12:23 PM
I think you should talk to him about it...

milestails
September 14th, 2012, 02:58 PM
that is wrong just talk to him why he did that to you were asleep maybe he will understand not do it again

josh_9
September 17th, 2012, 08:05 PM
just let him...experimenting is fun

karejeet
September 27th, 2012, 05:51 PM
you should be happy, gay, bi or straight

Aaron55
September 30th, 2012, 01:28 PM
LOL you have the upper hand here. He doesn't know that you know what happened. So if you want to shame him because it was not enjoyable than bring up negatively and scold him. If you liked it than tell him you want to do that stuff. Either way, a reaction on his part is going to be based on your actions. You can choose to make him feel really bad or really good, its all up to you.

averagemuscleguy
September 30th, 2012, 01:35 PM
Yeah thats an invasion of privacy but if you liked it do it together awake

RunnerForLife
September 30th, 2012, 02:00 PM
If you liked it then talk to him about it and see where it goes

Bumpin Bass
September 30th, 2012, 02:53 PM
Well, if you liked it, I don't see anything wrong with doing it when you're both awake and aware. Just tell him you knew what he was doing and that you want o continue if that's the case, if not, tell him you wish to stop there.

Danny_boi 16
September 30th, 2012, 03:06 PM
I wish that would happen to me! But if you're uncomfortable with it then just talk to him about it

Robinblake
September 30th, 2012, 05:12 PM
First of all, I'm jealous. If you liked it you should do it together. If it was uncomfortable then you should talk to him and work it out. It might be a new side of him you haven't seen before, but find a way to make it work.

showoffboy
November 2nd, 2012, 05:23 PM
i would take it as a compliment. obviously ur friend likes u. i would talk to him about it. maybe u could try stuff together, and maybe u would like it. and if u dont want to, im sure he would respect that. he probably thought u would like it. i know i like it when things like that happen to me!

NSoKShannon
November 2nd, 2012, 11:28 PM
I would sit down and talk with him.

NeonRaider
November 3rd, 2012, 07:37 PM
I had a sleep over last week at a mate's house. I woke up in the middle of night finding his hand was inside my pants stroking my penis. I pretended to be asleep and just let him continue. I got hard and nearly cum after about 10 minutes but i restrain from cumming coz i did not want to mess out my pant. Luckily he stop at that point. The problem is i am in a dilemma, i think it is wrong but i somehow like the feeling of that..what can i do?. No one should do anything to you that makes you uncomfortable, you should talk to him if you don't feel right with it.

Benm
November 3rd, 2012, 07:49 PM
if you want it to lead somewhere then talk to him about it, if not then just ignore it

Jaseeee
November 4th, 2012, 11:53 AM
Only you can know bro

athleticteen
November 9th, 2012, 06:45 PM
just do it together when u guys are awake

airjordan97
November 9th, 2012, 06:58 PM
I think you should sit down with him and talk about it and express your feelings and if you want it stop or continue.

Lost in the Echo
November 9th, 2012, 07:08 PM
Well, if it made you uncomfortable tell him about it.

I think that's kind of fucked up he did that to you, he thought you were asleep so he played with your dick, that's an invasion of your privacy.

Sir Suomi
November 9th, 2012, 07:32 PM
Um, dude, I think your friend might be gay. No offense, but if I woke up in the middle of the night and one of my friends was stroking my dick, I would probably get up and beat the shit out of him.

dan8854
December 24th, 2012, 06:24 PM
speak to him. don't let it happen again without your consent!

Unvoxandve
December 24th, 2012, 08:19 PM
I have been there. My best friend and I started masturbating together when we were 12 and it progressed from there. We enjoy it so I won't discourage you from continuing. If you like it and want to continue then you are lucky that you have a friend that is open to it.

ThatGuy69
December 29th, 2012, 02:39 PM
You should tell him that you were awake and see what happens.

PetrusRomanus
March 2nd, 2013, 02:09 AM
Hahah..I remember that night when we all got drunk. A guy friend of mine and me are on the same bed sleeping. All of a sudden he grabed my hand put it inside his briefs and use it to jerk off his stuff. I felt awkward after that. Anyway, it is really wrong.