Just guys confusing me...

[Gazmo]

let me tell you, i was never the type of girl to cry over a guy. ive been though more that many teenage girls, so i always saw 'guy troubles' as a little bit silly.

anyway, i dated this guy for a year or so, really liked him and all that. i have some issues and stuff, and he knew that but loved me anyway. he said he would always be there and for some reason i let my guard down and believed him. But stuff happened and he broke up with me.
it took me 5 months to get over him, which is strange for me. i still miss having someone though

im not desperate or anything, but the moment i got over him i fell for another guy. well, im falling for him, but desperatly trying not to.

so, sorry about me blabbing on, but i really have 2 questions.
1. should i just let myself fall for this guy? (and if not how do i stop myself?)
2. my mate asked him if he likes me and he said 'no comment' (his mates were there too, but i wasnt) so what the hell does no comment mean? :L

sorry for all that, i just had to get it off my chest :) thanks to anyone who bothered to read that :whoops:

[FreeFall]

That's not air to him, or you, to go into a relationship with solid fortified walls built up and always on guard. Until you can learn to be open and trusting to a person you're looking to be vulnerable with, you should probably take a break from dating and distract yourself with things you like to do so you don't focus on this new guy. And no comment could really mean 'no comment' or 'mind your business why do you care'. Good luck to you!

[Gazmo]

thankyou very much :) i think thats a good idea, i just have a habit of overthinking things and i probably do need a break from dating and all that.
thankyou very much

[FreeFall]

You're certainly welcome. Good luck and every once in awhile everyone needs that time to focus on just themselves and enjoy their freedom to do so (: have a blast!

[PinkFloyd]

Well it looks as though I'm the first dude to post here. First of all, yes. You shouldn't doubt your self. I think you should for sure fall for him personally I would say something like "no comment" or "what's it to you?" if someone came up to me and asked if I like some girl.

- Rob

[Gazmo]

Thankyou very much :) that helped :D x

[Levy]

I think you need to take it slow, maybe take a break as well. Or, if you do pursue, understand that if it doesn't work out, there will always be other chances of love in life. The thing about young love is, try not to fall for them to hard. I find younger people tend to take relationships more serious than they actually are at the moment. They take time to grow and blossom into something serious and lovely. Best of luck to you.

[Gazmo]

again thankyou very much :)

[Laserturtle]

I suppose it would depend on how the second guy is, we don't know anything about him

[Human]

no comment could be bad however :o but it depends, if you had an argument he might of rolled his eyes like "you know what i think"
BUT
it's impossible to tell really, all guys are different

[Avenida105]

Look I'm sorry to be a bit of a pessimist, but the majority of guys at teenage years like 13-18, don't fall in love or girl a love at all, most guys just want sex, not a real relationship. Other guys get a girlfriend just because its part of the trend.

On the other hand, since girls mature psychologically faster than guys, they do tend to fall in love for real.

Most of my friend when they see a girl they are like "oh dude I would so do her, she has such a nice a**, such nice ti*s" I've never heard another guy my age say, and she has an awesome personality, that there is something WITHIN her that makes me feel that way.

I have fallen in love once, and I could never think of doing anything sexual to her, Idk it felt wrong, it felt like she was something that should not be touched. It turned out she was not for me, I still like her a little but I'm trying to get over it.

1. You should never let yourself fall just for one guy, you said it yourself you are tough. So be tough, show him that he is not going to bring you down. After all you are only 15 there are plenty of guys out there, give us a little time to mature, and to actually learn how to love. If a guy is really in love, and there is a discution or break up, they will either try to sooth out the fight, or try to get you back no matter what, that is real love.

2. No comment means like, I don't want to talk about it now, and it could also mean, None of your business. Or why does it matter.

Try to forget him, if he comes after you then he did love you, if he doesn't it's not the end of the world, after all there are 7 billion people in the planet.