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LoveMe_HateMe
August 27th, 2012, 05:07 AM
So, from posting my last thread in here 2 years ago I've gone from being totally confused and worried about my sexuality to being happy and confident with the outcome, after "finding" myself.

2 years ago I was straight, come bi-curious and totally confused as to who I was and what I was going to do about it etc, but now, I've come out as a lesbian and in a steady relationship with the girl I love.

My point is that if you're worrying about whether you are straight, gay, bi, lesbian, trans, purple... Whatever, it doesn't matter, give yourself time to think things through and let yourself be who you are and what you want to be.

Don't live you're life being told what to do and how to live it. Enjoy it, it's your life after all and YOU control it.

I'm not even sure of the point of this post, I think it's to give anyone that's confused some hope about finding themselves - because it is possible.

Don't be afraid or scared of who you are.

PM or VM me if you want, I can try and help if you need any, or just for a chat :yeah:

You're never alone.

OregonStateDude
August 27th, 2012, 01:32 PM
Great advice. When I first realized that I was gay, I didn't freak out or anything. I didn't rush to the medicine cabinet to get some pills or razor blades. I just accepted it and went on with my life.

It breaks my heart when I hear about boys around my age who kill themselves 'cuz they can't handle being gay or bi. If you are afraid of being bullied, just hide it until you graduate High School.

LoveMe_HateMe
August 27th, 2012, 01:41 PM
I didn't freak out either... It felt... Right I guess. I already had the razor blades but that's for another reason. Me finding out that I wasn't straight did confuse me a little bit but I got over it and I'm loving it... Generally find that gay/lesbian people tend to be slightly more friendlier... Although not sure if that's just me being friends with the assholes...

It breaks my heart when people are bullied for it. At the end of the day we can't chose to be straight, or gay, it just happens, its who we are. It's like saying that we choose to be white, or black.

Society just sucks. Especially when they don't support us, 'the next generation'.