What to say when he can't get it up? (Guys)

[torry]

Okay, so, for the first time ever, my boyfriend couldn't get it up. The poor baby was so freaked out. I'm a girl, so I didn't see what the big deal was, but he was certainly mortified. I may not understand why guys get so embarrassed by this, but I do wish I could have helped better. For awhile he just wouldn't talk, but then I tried to just have a conversation...well..I started with "What's up?". Yeah. I'm awful. I didn't even realize what I had said until he groaned and was like "Really?!". And, just..how adorable he was, and how good that comedic timing was, I started giggling. He got so mad, but I couldn't stop laughing. He was too cute! Eventually he was fine, and everything..ahem..went swimmingly, but just in case this happens again: Guys, what would you want your girlfriend to say to you? What would make you feel better?

[StoneColdNicky]

Exactly what you were thinking would probably have been nice... like that he's adorable and stuff.

[DJT1]

Just reassure him that its ok. You might want to get him to go to his doctor and check for ED

[Human]

DJT1 it was his first time it happened she said and it will happen to all of us probably, one time or another when we're nervous.
Just act like it's okay and do what you did:P

[Nullandvoid]

just tell him he's probably tired/stressed about something and not to worry - and then get that thing in your mouth ASAP he should be hard in no time and happy again

[Sean4U]

Just reassure him that its ok. You might want to get him to go to his doctor and check for ED

ED at our age, i doubt it....was probably just nervous, maybe tired or something....it happens and you did good .....

[jokermaster101]

aww that is so cute.

well im sure she would be just like you. real friendly and she would be supportive and wait until another time.

[Nolf]

be normal, and nice, and act like you usually would. Or theirs the other approach where you spout lines from a romance novels and make things super sexual and that may help as well.

[Hungman]

use your mouth next time ;)

[Matt_2012]

haha kaaa utee! just say something bout it being along day and your just tired then charge him up if he wants to. :)

[Xandle]

Make sure he knows he still like him just as much as before - just kiss him and tell him it doesn't matter to you and that it happens. The bigger deal you make out of it, the bigger deal he'll make out of it. If you brush it off when it forst happens and move on then he should get over it quicker.

[pinkgurl16]

I say it is ok because I like playing with soft ones also.

[zoe18]

Try going down on him - it usually works for me!

[vespamelb]

Try going down on him - it usually works for me!

I agree, just reassure him and try using your mouth to make it happen :)

[redtukr]

its all good I understand its been a rough day will do something else and come back later when your ready

[raiders9]

honestly for me it would make it ten times better if you kinda were playfuly joke about it lol thats just the kind of girl i like...and to the guy that said use your mouth quit being a creeper --__--