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ummmmm
August 25th, 2012, 08:03 PM
every time i masturbate it feels really really good but when it starts feeling the best it's like it all does downhill from there, too sensitive to keep going or i suddenly just really want to stop
sometimes i really feel like i'm going to orgasm (feeling like about to burst) but it just.... doesnt happen? ever?
i've been trying for a loooong time with different methods
it's a let down every time!

ive tried going slower or faster or harder when it gets too sensitive but its just too uncomfortable and i have to stop?

is there any way to help this, do i have some kind of misconception?? thank you!!

i dont want to not be able to orgasm forever lol

anyone50
August 26th, 2012, 01:35 AM
could be your just trying to hard just enjoy what your feeling and relax it will happen

Nullandvoid
August 26th, 2012, 10:12 AM
just keep trying and don't stop no matter what
or get a friend to do you so you don't have as much control

FreeFall
August 26th, 2012, 05:42 PM
Relax and keep experimenting. If you're really concerned, you could ask a doctor. I'm sure you're just over stimulating your mind and distracting yourself though.

Pop girl
August 27th, 2012, 02:30 AM
I have the same problem :/

emily-candace
August 27th, 2012, 05:47 PM
how old are you, Ididn't get my first orgasm until I was 13 and I almost fell off the toilet when it happened. LOL

Mel88
August 27th, 2012, 08:49 PM
Relax, enjoy and stop thinking that u r not going to get an orgasm

StephanieSanders
September 7th, 2012, 04:09 PM
I had the problem so i changed my technique. PM me if you wanna share tips