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Athlete15
August 25th, 2012, 07:15 PM
Being bisexual myself, and very deeply in the closet, I have only told one friend about it, and even with him its hard to discuss any thoughts/feelings on the same sex because I feel like its an awkward subject for him. I'm sure he'd listen, but I hate making him feel uncomfortable.

I care way too much what people think and have many trust issues so I am not sure telling another, more comfortable friend is the right route for me, because the more people that know the more paranoid about it getting around I will get. I know that sounds shallow that I care so much, but I can't help it:(

Anyways, I was wondering for all the closeted bis, gays, or just curious people, who do you talk to about things of that nature?

AndCuriousGuy16
August 25th, 2012, 08:28 PM
For me i had to tell my best friend which is a girl. I feel that girls are way easier to talk to and they have more feelings and will always be there to talk. But besides that it is nobody else for right now anyway just because i have one foot in the closet and one out. You shouldn't rush coming out though. You need to completely be sure about this. I know for a fact that i am bi. Good luck bro and if you need somebody to talk to, send me a PM!

RCT109
August 25th, 2012, 10:48 PM
well for me
My friend helped me to come to terms with being bi so i talk to him

danny7
August 26th, 2012, 12:21 AM
Well, my best friend is pansexual, so I can relate to her.

AppealToReason
August 26th, 2012, 12:26 AM
I have two close friends that I came out to this summer, so I occasionally talk to them about it.
Before that, I talked to some people on VT, but not too often. I'm not really an open person though.

Abyssal Echo
August 26th, 2012, 12:36 AM
I have a female cousin that I usually talk to and a couple of kool guys here on VT. other than that I pretty much keep things to myself.

Akasuki
August 26th, 2012, 01:22 AM
I'm out of the closet and I have been for years now, but I still don't have anyone to talk to that can relate to me. I mostly go to my girlfriend but she can't relate much for some reasons I don't want to discuss. :/

Aidoon123
August 26th, 2012, 12:28 PM
I talked about my curiosity with a friend from school and my bestie who is practically my sister

Losing Sanity79
August 27th, 2012, 09:09 AM
I talk to my best friend. She is a girl, and she is 100% accepting of me. She loves me so much, and we talk about everything. She just carries on a conversation about guys, and we talk. Then we talk about people we like, want to date... stuff like that. She is awesome! XD Lol!

Emiil
August 27th, 2012, 11:04 AM
I used to talk with some people from VT, don't really do it anymore tho^^
I've never talked about it with someone IRL :(

Haleyzmont
September 1st, 2012, 07:50 PM
I dont :( i keep my feelings to myself because i know no one will understand. I live in a very gay place but i cant seem to run into anyone my age that is lesbian i mean my "gaydar" is pretty good but so far no one in my school is gay so yea. But when i do meet someone else that is gay or lesbian i will be a very happy camper :)