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xXJust Jump ItXx
August 25th, 2012, 04:12 PM
I guess lately it seems people will see me or what ever, I talk to them but I cant create a friendship basically... Im a nice person and I want friends! I am "underground" with style and everything, but I dont know Im thinking thats why. People around here judge to quick, it gets to me alot but I need some friends and I dont know what to do now!
DerBear
August 26th, 2012, 09:00 AM
My advice for making friendship is, to always find a common interest with someone. Like if you enjoy sports, talk about that or attend something sporty with that person. Try and create conversations where you are both talking about something you both enjoy. You do have to try an interact with people which is the hardest part but it is like jumping into a cold pool, you take a deep breath then you jump and you just have to do the same. Take a deep breath and talk to the person.
Making new friends is hard for everyone unless you are naturally very social and open. So I would suggest you find a common topic and take it from there. If you don't know if people like something then attend a club or sport where you can chat to people about things to do with that sport as you know they will probably like it.
You could also take a look at this guide (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25633) to making friends.
xXJust Jump ItXx
August 26th, 2012, 12:55 PM
Haha thats what I normally do is find something me and the person have in common and go on that... Being horseback riding to Nirvana. :P No joke Ive used both. And I can be a social person, other times Im not but I can give it a shot... It feels I scare people away by my appearance before I can talk to them. Im grunge... its not intimidating...
Machinegun
August 29th, 2012, 08:51 AM
I´m sure u will make new friends
maybe u need to listen to new music..also I´m sure there are a lot of people who like Nirvana so u can talk about it ..just show confidenence : )
also u can go to the gym, play sports..or find friends online
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