View Full Version : can her doctor tell?
PinkFloyd
August 24th, 2012, 01:44 AM
*Please move if it fits in a better spot*
Okay, I just thought of this and started to panic. Can my girlfriend's doctor tell if she's had sex?
chris1997
August 24th, 2012, 01:57 AM
most likely but they wont tell the parents due to docter to patient confidentiality
PinkFloyd
August 24th, 2012, 02:42 AM
that is a huge relief. thanks man :)
Truth
August 24th, 2012, 04:27 AM
.... Do doctors in Minnesota usually look at a womans vagina without any particular reason?
Because as far as I know you need to go to a specialist for those types of things, and even then... it's impossible to tell unless some one else has sex with her (so no one can honestly tell)
Mortal Coil
August 24th, 2012, 07:19 AM
.... Do doctors in Minnesota usually look at a womans vagina without any particular reason?
Precisely. Just chill, nobody's going to bust you. Besides, doctors cannot prove that someone has or has not had sex. They can only use what they see as evidence to support either argument.
xXJust Jump ItXx
August 24th, 2012, 11:50 AM
I dont wanna sound rude or anything... but should you be having sex with her if you are afraid of getting busted by her parents cause they dont allow of it? Just the idea of "If in doubt, dont do it"...
HunterSteele
August 24th, 2012, 12:11 PM
I dont wanna sound rude or anything... but should you be having sex with her if you are afraid of getting busted by her parents cause they dont allow of it? Just the idea of "If in doubt, dont do it"...
And if you're only 14?
xXJust Jump ItXx
August 24th, 2012, 01:42 PM
^^^ I should of put that in... 14 is a little young... Just saying. Im 16, never had sex and Im okay with it. My niece is 13 and yeah I cant even imagine her getting into that, she doesnt even have a boyfriend...
StoppingTime
August 24th, 2012, 01:55 PM
I dont wanna sound rude or anything... but should you be having sex with her if you are afraid of getting busted by her parents cause they dont allow of it? Just the idea of "If in doubt, dont do it"...
And if you're only 14?
^^^ I should of put that in... 14 is a little young... Just saying. Im 16, never had sex and Im okay with it. My niece is 13 and yeah I cant even imagine her getting into that, she doesnt even have a boyfriend...
OK, but why patronize the OP by telling him what he should or should not do when he is simply asking for help? :rolleyes:
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Anyway, as others have said, there is no way anything can be proven.
And regardless of that, it isn't a doctor's place to be informing her parents if she has ever had sex.
xXJust Jump ItXx
August 24th, 2012, 02:12 PM
OK, but why patronize the OP by telling him what he should or should not do when he is simply asking for help? :rolleyes:
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Anyway, as others have said, there is no way anything can be proven.
And regardless of that, it isn't a doctor's place to be informing her parents if she has ever had sex.
Im not saying they shouldnt or cant... Im just saying in my opinion its a little young.
Mystique
August 25th, 2012, 05:03 PM
No, a doctor cannot tell if you've had sex. Even if she went to her gynecologist and they performed an internal exam, the most they might be able to say is that she broke her hymen, but this can happen in normal activities such as horse riding or even dancing.
Think about it in the case of why so many rapists don't get caught. If a doctor could prove you had sex with a certain person it would make things much easier but they can't - unless there is internal bruising from rough sex but I'm hoping this wont be an issue for you?
Even if she chose to tell her doctor if she was worried about pregnancy, they cannot tell her parents unless she told them you were over 18 and she was under so it would be deemed a matter of safety
Truth
August 25th, 2012, 09:44 PM
Im not saying they shouldnt or cant... Im just saying in my opinion its a little young. Great, now leave the OP alone and stop giving the opinion that wasn't asked for.
If he wants to have sex it will be his problem.
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