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YEAH BABY
August 23rd, 2012, 05:13 PM
I just recently got out of a 6 month
relationship with a long distance girl from Ellesmere Port, England. We met on an online Taylor Swift discussion forum. She thought it was absolutely amazing that I love Taylor, so we right away, had something in common. We talked for about 2 weeks and then we began to like each other...then it became a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.....then after a month or two we fell in love.
Things were great and lovely.....i ended up meeting her in person for the first time.....and that went great! As so it seems.......
We broke up just like 4 days after I arrived back :( She said oh i felt no spark, it wasnt what I expected and stuff like that. I was very sad, and so was she. She had wanted everything to work out also.
I thankfully had just got over it, but she, (her name is CHLOE) told me a confession.....she thinks she is a lesbian, and thats why it never worked out between us, and another guy she had just met.
But, why tell me now?! Now im annoyed and upset..

FreeFall
August 23rd, 2012, 05:18 PM
Possibly to give you closure and herself?
Just in case you wanted to know they why, and how comes or ever tried to ignite that old kettle of feelings? Maybe she trusts you and sees you as a good friend now.

YEAH BABY
August 23rd, 2012, 05:28 PM
Possibly to give you closure and herself?
Just in case you wanted to know they why, and how comes or ever tried to ignite that old kettle of feelings? Maybe she trusts you and sees you as a good friend now.

You are right, yeah she does trust me and says I am still important as a best friend in her life.....but still, its very shocking.... :(

FreeFall
August 23rd, 2012, 05:34 PM
My one ex is gay.
The only thing that bothered me were the "so you were a cover-up girlfriend" remarks and jokes. I wasn't, he was bi when we were dating, but still it was a bit upsetting to say I wasn't surprised by it. But my ex and I hate each other.

It's nice she trusts and sees you as a valuable person in her life. I hope that the shock wears off for you and doesn't wear you down. Keep your head up (:

YEAH BABY
August 23rd, 2012, 05:41 PM
My one ex is gay.
The only thing that bothered me were the "so you were a cover-up girlfriend" remarks and jokes. I wasn't, he was bi when we were dating, but still it was a bit upsetting to say I wasn't surprised by it. But my ex and I hate each other.

It's nice she trusts and sees you as a valuable person in her life. I hope that the shock wears off for you and doesn't wear you down. Keep your head up (:

I hope so too! I'll see how things play out..