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Alexwellace
August 23rd, 2012, 02:27 PM
I think the hardest thing about being a teenager is to learn the ability to filter through feelings to get at the real ones, not the hormone induced ones. It took me a while to work this out ( i developed early) and went around every other month thinking i was gay, bi, obsesed with a one girl or another or lusting after girls i've only just seen "in a new light" (Boobs came through...).

So i'd like to know the personal definitions of these words to you.

-Sexualy attracted
-Emotionaly attracted
-Attractive in convinency
-Attracted in desperation (Re-bound)
These are the definitions i confuse the most along with.

-Love
-Being straight (as in you've never fantasised about gay stuff, can it be done?)
-Being Bi (as in you've always known your Bi and not just dont want to be gay/straight. is this a real orientation?)
-Being gay ( as you arn't attracted to the oppisite sex, is this possible?)

I think these words are importent to having relationships when a teenager and to understand them, as being Emotionaly attrative shouldn't be confused with being in love and confusing being sexualy attracted to someone with being truely *insert orinentation here*. I'd like to read your take on things. See if we can identify if we are being toy boys or are in the perfect relationship.

to put everything in perspective. In relationship/out of relationship for over 3 weeks/just out of relationship {X}

FreeFall
August 23rd, 2012, 03:17 PM
These are my personal thoughts for their definitions.
-Sexually attracted: You love their looks. You've got a great sex drive after them and when paired with love, can spend off fireworks.
-Emotionally attracted: The looks don't matter to you. You feel a deep emotional bond and trust with the person.
-Attractive in convinency: They were there at the right time, nothing else matters
-Attracted in desperation (Re-bound): You're desperate for something, some type of attraction or desire and they were the first thing to cross your path that you wanted.
These are the definitions i confuse the most along with.

-Love: The deepest connection. You feel safe, secure. You're emotionally attached and bonded along with sexually attached and bonded. There's a wonderful harmony with the person you're with and everything's mutual.
-Being truly straight: I'm confused as to what you're asking with this to be honest. Truly straight, I suppose you're truly only interested in the opposite sex. You've no desire, nor interest or curiosity in the same sex?
-Being truly Bi: You truly love both sexes and are just as content and in love with a man as you can be with a woman.
-Being truly gay: I guess same definition I put for as being truly straight but with the same sex.

That's just my personal take.

Manjusri
August 23rd, 2012, 03:29 PM
-Sexualy attracted: Being attracted to someone's exterior appearance. (physically)
-Emotionaly attracted: Being attracted to someone's personality.
-Attractive in convinency: Look, a living, breathing, organism. I should fuck it.
-Attracted in desperation (Re-bound): ^

-Love: Devoting your life to one person, being fully and truly connected on both physical and emotional terms.
-Being truely straight: GirlsGirlsGirlsGirlsGirlsGirlsGirlsGirlsGirlsGirls
-Being truely Bi: GirlsandguysGirlsandguysGirlsandguysGirlsandguys
-Being truely gay: GuysGuysGuysGuysGuysGuysGuys

Sleepy Raisin
August 24th, 2012, 10:14 PM
-Sexualy attracted I think this means that you're kinda lusting ONLY towards their body but no emotion, this is where your hormones are raging so you could think you like someone you really dont
-Emotionaly attractedYou see a future with them and you could see settling down and having childern together, usually you feel sexually and emotionally attached.
-Attractive in convinencyI have NO idea lol
-Attracted in desperation (Re-bound)You dont really like them, you just want them to get back at somebody
These are the definitions i confuse the most along with.

-LoveThis is VERY confusing to teenagers, mostly because we've never experienced love, usually, and can be confused easily as having a crush on them
-Being straight (as in you've never fantasised about gay stuff, can it be done?)Errr.. Lol i dont think thats possible, whether a guy is straight 100% we are walking hormones! Im sure every guy has had sexual tendencies towards a guy whether they want to admit t or not
-Being Bi (as in you've always known your Bi and not just dont want to be gay/straight. is this a real orientation?)I have no clue
-Being gay ( as you arn't attracted to the oppisite sex, is this possible?)i have no idea.