Girls answer this

[Tonyc135]

Dear members of the female gender;

Why are some of you (if you really are) COMPLETELY oblivious to the fact that your keeping someone in the friendzone? Like its soooo obvious for guys to notice when some poor bro is smiten and shes keeping him "just friends". Its kind of cruel because you subliminaly say things that makes him think you like him. Its like torture, why is it so hard to realize? Please respond.

[conniption]

Lol what I think happens online is that girls become more flirty (I'm guilty of this too). Some know that they're leading people on but they like that, and others might be genuinely oblivous. If you want her to know you like there then tell her straight up. You have nothing to lose

[ImCoolBeans]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[FreeFall]

If we don't want to date you and find you to be more friend material than we're going to keep you as a friend. We're not obligated to date someone just because they like us, guys and girls.
It is possible to escape the dreaded friend zone, and I'll agree it really really really does suck when you're stuck in it. Good luck!

[Jalinta]

Well, most of the time it's just because we don't like you in that way and we don't really know what else to do.. Most of us don't mean to be a tease or anything, but the attention is pretty nice and can make you do stupid things I guess so.. :/

[Foamy]

The girl has to like you too. She won't be with someone she doesn't like.

[Jupiter]

Why don't they have the right to friendzone people. Just because a guy likes her, doesn't mean that she has to go on with the relationship. More or less, the guy is probably being a douche bag to her anyways, so take a look at yourself, to realize that NOT ALL PEOPLE ARE THE SAME.

[Elysium]

I only recall ever "friend zoning" one person, and that was because, vainly, I enjoyed the attention, and I enjoyed feeling worth it. On the other hand, I wasn't personally ready to date and the idea made me uncomfortable, so I kept him as a close friend.

Otherwise, if someone's ever crushed on me, I've been completely oblivious, because I've only ever known of four people liking me. I was only aware because either they or someone else informed me. I'm not very savvy when it comes to social cues.

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

In my opinion, I think some girls really have no idea they're doing that. Like for me, I'll just be talking to a guy, and afterwards , my friends will giggle and tease me for flirting with them. Speaking for myself, I really don't mean for the things I say to come out that way, but I guess it just happens. I'm honestly very clueless when it comes to guys.

I only know of one occasion where I knew I was flirting with somebody, but I thought they knew it meant nothing. I'll admit to doing wrong, it was just he caught me at a time where I was feeling low and talking to him got my mind off of things.Like Zoey, I wasn't and still am not ready to date anybody, but unlike her, the guy and I are no longer friends. he turned out to be a jerk anyway.

But like I was saying, I really do think a lot of girls don't know they're doing it. Other girls... Well I'm not sure...

[AXZ34e81b949e]

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[Kirsi]

Apparently I was doing this to my current boyfriend for quite a while before we started dating. He liked me but he didn't tell me and he always acted so cool so I honestly just didn't notice that he liked me. I liked him too and flirted with him but I didn't know he liked me back so I dated another guy and then my current boyfriend thought I was just messing with him. It's kinda funny when I remember it now.

[Nullandvoid]

we're doing him a huge favour of which he should be eternally grateful.
If he is in the friendzone it means you value him and he clearly isn't prime BF material yet, no matter what any boy thinks.
He is getting experience, inside info and training whether he realises it or not.

Respect the friendzone, if you don't then you don't even deserve that.