Girls, and guys i guess please give advice

[Tonyc135]

Ok well theres this girl that i used to be into in like 8th grade, beautiful, funny basically perfect for me. First problem when i really became best friends with her in 10th grade. She has a boyfriend. Hes a doucher and doesnt deserve her. I always help her with everything and she is completely open with me about everything. Second problem i think i love her. Sometimes she talks abot sexual stuff with me that makes it seem like maybe she likes me but i dont think shes picking up on my hints. Idk how to tell her and i dont want to wait forever for her to realize. Help me opposite sex!

[chris1997]

first im a guy :P you have 2 options. Wait for her to leave her Bf and take her then; or tell her how u feel NOW.

[Zarakly]

Im a guy sorry haha, but i think you should tell her, or maybe she thinks your "gay" to be telling you stuff like that. You were friends with her since 8th grade and now in 10th, and she tell you personal stuff. SO maybe she thinks you are "gay" or she likes you

[jokermaster101]

Dude, when you get the chance tell her how you feel. it sucks when you wait too late, it happened to me. just be honest, girls like that.
Besides there a 100% chance that you will be a better boyfriend than that prick that you say mistreats her. she totally deserves you man. who knows, maybe she has those same feelings

[DerBear]

I think you shall find more relevant answers in relationships and dating

Puberty for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Tonyc135]

Thanks everyone for the advice. And dude she knows im strait as a ruler. Bi just dont want to screw up our friendship by getting all emotional on her. That Freaks out the girls you like and attracts the ones you hide from.

[Tonyc135]

Bi=but
Typo

[NoWhereMan]

Thanks everyone for the advice. And dude she knows im strait as a ruler. Bi just dont want to screw up our friendship by getting all emotional on her. That Freaks out the girls you like and attracts the ones you hide from.

Even rulers bend a little ;) lol.

[Sleepy Raisin]

Even rulers bend a little ;) lol.

Maybe he's a metal ruler! Lol OR one of those flexible rulers!

But dude, i would just tell her, i you think youre really "in love" with her then Tell her!

[ashdyn]

You are completely and utterly stuck in the dreaded friend zone! Nothing worse than having the girl you really really like talk to you about her boyfriend.
You only have a few options:

1. Sneaky: You're her best friend and trusted confidant. You could use that to your advantage and subtly point out all the imperfections in her relationship and how big a douche her current boyfriend is.
Pros: You get to bash the boyfriend. It'll feel great when she agrees with some of you're points.
Cons: If she figures out you're trying to manipulate her...you're toast.
2. Honest: Straight up tell her how you feel. Don't beat around the bush, just go for broke and spill your guts.
Pros: The gratification when she picks you. It's the "right way" to get her.
Cons: She could push you away because she wants to make it easier on you to deal with your feelings. <- if you really love her...this would probably make you want to die.
3. Longitudinal: Wait for the douche boyfriend to fuck up or break her heart.
Pros: You'll get to be the knight in shining armor. Path of least resistance.
Cons: Might take forever. Might never happen. Might get you super friend zoned if you don't play it right.

[dedee]

Dont wait to long to tell her.. If you think theres a chance she might like you go for it tell her how you feel. If you wait to much she might get over you... That a girl has a boyfriend doesnt necessarily means that she is in love and wouldnt like anyone else.. Maybe she thinks you dont like her and she decided to get a boyfriend

[Jackerlus]

Like ashdyn said, maybe you could try subtly pointing out problems in their relationship. Let's say, he's recently declined a date for an 'important' footy match on TV, You could ask her if you've been out with him lately. Hopefully, she'll soon realise the imperfections with their relationship.

Good luck :)

[BlueSky]

Hey. Common problem, we've all been there! My ten cents of advice would be to get out there and meet some other girls. Make sure you tell her all about it, especially your successes! This way, you might just meet somebody else who'll take your mind off it (worked for Romeo, have a look at the play) or alternatively she'll see you as a very non wet guy who is about to be snapped up by someone else. Avoid slagging her current boyfriend off at all costs. Good luck!

[West Coast Sheriff]

Just tell her how u feel