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InfinantSilence
August 22nd, 2012, 04:00 PM
So, um i have a crush on the new guy :L The problem is nobody knows im bi. And im not sure if he is gay or not. And to make it worse, i sit beside him fourth period, beside him fifth period, and in front of him seventh period. how do i get over him? Every time i crush on a guy, i sort of zone out; all the time. And it affects my grades and social life a lot. So yeah.

ImCoolBeans
August 22nd, 2012, 04:34 PM
Since this is more so about you having a crush on somebody and not so much about your actual sexuality I'm going to move it to Relationships and Dating.
Teen Sexuality :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

Getting over somebody is never really an easy thing to do; but sometimes you don't have a choice. If possible, just block them out of your mind. Try not to think about him, get hung up on him or talk to him if you don't need to. Moving on is the best thing you can do in this situation. Meet someone new, test the waters a little bit. You say you're bisexual - so maybe try finding a girl to date if you don't want people to know that you also like guys.

Coolboi
August 22nd, 2012, 07:15 PM
well Taylor it's easy on vt to ask if you are straight bi or gay to find our self is cool well because we are not in face to face or in person so we all can let let it out an vent . in person face to face to ask is diffrent get to know the person an see if it can work . as far as the crush go's when you see a guy or girl that u like a crush can start so just be your self an it will come to you .

Skyhawk
August 22nd, 2012, 09:57 PM
Ehh, I'm in the same position as you and it sucks. ._.

So far I'm trying hard to distract myself by seeing what my other friends are up to and hope that whatever I'm doing will help me forget him. Maybe you could try the same?

ashdyn
August 23rd, 2012, 03:54 AM
Crush on the "new guy" lol you should make a movie about this.

I still don't know why the new kid always seems to be hotter than everyone else...shiny new toy I guess lol

I've been in your shoes though. (Bobby...DROOOOL! I swear I loved him)
It's hard to get over someone you're always in close proximity to. It's even harder to get over someone you never even had a chance with. At least he's not asking you to hook him up with your bestfriend...then dating her (my life really sucked).

Anyway...there's no scientific way to get over a crush. He's new, you probably aren't even friends yet so he's probably hard to hate. The only thing to do is wait it out. This is the world's worst advice but that's it...and masturbate A LOT. Maybe after his new toy shininess wears away you won't be so attracted. Or you could learn more about him and find out you have nothing in common...or that he's a dbag lol

FreeFall
August 23rd, 2012, 10:20 AM
I agree with the above poster that said you could try dating girls for awhile (:
You could throw yourself into some hobbies you really like? Join some clubs or something new, it'll help you get over the new crush. Good luck!