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Antagonist
August 21st, 2012, 07:26 PM
This may be a bit confusing, so heads up.

So I've liked guys and girls my entire life. I liked girls more as a child, and before middle school. But know that I've had the chance to experience guys and basically be a manwhore with guys, the tables have turned.

I cannot think about being married to a girl. I want to raise a family with a guy. I love guys, they're easier to understand, and I'm happier around them when I'm in a relationship or flirting with one.

Girls are nice. Sure, yeah. I just... I'm more sexually attracted to them than emotionally. Maybe not even that. I suck with girl relationships, anywas. I can't understand them. I can understand guys perfectly, since I am one. I just... Live guys.

But here's the kicker; I've already came out as gay, then bi. Gay because I couldn't get a girlfriend, and guys were filled in my head. Bi afterwards, because I met this girl that I absolutely fell for. But I started getting feelings for an old guy crush three months into the relationship.

Am I gay? Am I bi? I just know I like guys....

Harley Quinn
August 21st, 2012, 07:41 PM
Does it even matter what you? At the end of the day, you like who you like and you shouldn't feel the need to keep "coming out" after falling for someone. Sexuality is fluid and doesn't have to be strictly one label, you don't need one either. But just to ease your mind - I think you're gay. You don't want a female to marry or kids with one and that shows you the answer. You shouldn't even have to ask, you know? You either know yourself or you don't.

Antagonist
August 21st, 2012, 07:46 PM
Does it even matter what you? At the end of the day, you like who you like and you shouldn't feel the need to keep "coming out" after falling for someone. Sexuality is fluid and doesn't have to be strictly one label, you don't need one either. But just to ease your mind - I think you're gay. You don't want a female to marry or kids with one and that shows you the answer. You shouldn't even have to ask, you know? You either know yourself or you don't.

I understand entirely. But. I just need to finalize it with my friends and everybody around me stop asking and so nobody gets feelings for me and they know they don't have a chance if they have a vagina. ._.

Harley Quinn
August 21st, 2012, 08:01 PM
Well I guess you need to say that you're gay then, and before you do make sure you're certain. But you probably are anyways.

Antagonist
August 21st, 2012, 08:19 PM
Well I guess you need to say that you're gay then, and before you do make sure you're certain. But you probably are anyways.

Thanks, broseph.

volleyball17
August 22nd, 2012, 12:22 PM
you are probably gay. if you can see yourself loving a girl and having a family with one. for me I'm straight since i can only have that emotional love feeling for girls but i have done sexual things with guys.