Am I gay?

[Lose Yourself]

Hi...
Ok, so I get attracted to girls rather than guys, but when I think of or see a girl naked, it doesn't really turn me on. But with guys, it turns me on way more... So am I gay? I'm scared because if I want to have sex, I'm afraid that I wont be able to have an erection...

[Jaysonn]

What about in porn if you saw a naked girl doing sexual things then- would you get an erection then? And just because you get turned on by that - Dosent mean your gay- that's just a sexual thought- oly you can know of your gay by seeing which gender you would want to be with in real life - so if you are attracted to girls..

[AppealToReason]

If it's just a sexual attraction, then probably not. Your young and your hormones are crazy, so it really could just be a phase.
Being gay is more than sexual attraction. That is a big part of it, but certainly not the only part. Can you picture yourself loving a man? I know that's tough to think of at a young age, but is part of being gay. The emotional connection. Honestly, if you take time to think about it, you can find the answer yourself.
Though, I wouldn't worry much. Like I said, you're young and hormones are crazy. Don't worry about who you made end up attracted to in the end or labeling yourself as straight or gay. Just go about your life. If, sometime in the future, you find a guy or girl who you really love, then so be it. For now, just be a teenager and do what feels right.

[PinkFloyd]

I imagine that everyone else has said this too but your hormones are going crazy. I had a similar phase like this when I was like 11. If you are emotionally attracted to girls but physically attracted to guys I guess you could be bi. But this is probably just a phase. no worries

[irish_dude_16]

don't worry its just your hormones im the same way :L

[fast8]

you will b ok you will know right its just hormones

[deathmoonO2]

you're curious

[CranberryBridge]

It's really hard to tell. Do you get aroused by seeing girls do sexy things in movies or shows? Or do you just get aroused by guys? You could just be curious, which is a stage a lot of people go through during puberty.

[Ambrosia]

Bump-de-lump-debumped. Please don't bump! :locked: