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defqonner
August 20th, 2012, 08:33 PM
What signs or when will a girl hint that she likes a guy.
e.g
show confidence, try and be funny, play with her, sarcastic put downs etc...
i really really want to know! as it would also help me.

FullyAlive
August 20th, 2012, 08:38 PM
:arrow2: relationships and dating

Harley Quinn
August 20th, 2012, 08:52 PM
She'll probably tell her friends first, and then you won't know till a few months later when she starts doing things she wouldn't normally do around you.

defqonner
August 20th, 2012, 08:55 PM
ok thats all well and good. But how will she show it.
When a guy likes a girl and there talking to eachother... but really like them.
he can either be really shy or try and act really funny.

TheKid17
August 20th, 2012, 11:58 PM
Here is a list of basic IOIs (Indicator of interest):
*She reinitiates conversations when you stop talking
*She giggles
*She touches you
*She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you
*She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so
*She tosses her hair (to see if you will look)
*If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
*She smiles at you
*She stands nearby (proximity)
*She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said
*While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you
*She says something to her friend and they both giggle
*She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation
*While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention)
*She asks you for your name
*She asks you your age (make her guess)
*She compliments you
*She is playful and tries to challenge you
*She's disagreeing but laughing
*She's punching your arm but laughing
*She uses nicknames for you
*She plays with her hair while talking to you
*When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours
*She repeatedly touches you in any way
*She asks if you have a girlfriend
*She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one
*When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
*She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you
*She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
*If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it
*When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
*She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
*She introduces you to friends
*She buys you a drink
*She calls you a player or a heartbreaker
*On her way out, she reapproaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)
*On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)
*She returns your calls
*She invents reasons to be near you, intereact with you, or have isolation with you

Passive IOIs

*Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays
*She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods
*If you move, she follows you or waits for you
*She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close
*She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistence to avoid feeling like a slut)


The most important IOIs to look for are:

*She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
*She giggles
*She touches you
*She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you

NotAvailable
August 21st, 2012, 07:10 AM
When girl like a guy she can totally make him feel it , every girl has her way , but eventually you will know it , most common things :
she laughs on you jokes and comments more than others.
she looks to you " the interested look appearance " for long time.
she try to engage in any conversation you are in .

defqonner
August 22nd, 2012, 11:44 PM
wow....
thats alot of information.
Although that long list seems like flirting.. but in retrospect, i guess thats what it is.
and im sure the context is 'if your at a party, club or a bar' then those rules apply.
but more than not they apply in real life aswell.
thank you. If anyone else has input gladly appreciated

Roses_Are_Yellow
August 25th, 2012, 07:32 PM
When her friends see you and the girl around each other, and start giggling like crazy hyenas.

Kirsi
August 26th, 2012, 09:55 AM
When her friends see you and the girl around each other, and start giggling like crazy hyenas.
lol this makes me laugh. giggling like crazy hyena's xD.

I don't even know anymore what it was that I did that made my current boyfriend realize I like him. I just did like him and I wasn't even trying to do anything to make him know that. He could just tell.. I don't know how. I think if a girl likes you then you will eventually just be able to tell one way or another.

ForeverSecretive
August 26th, 2012, 06:39 PM
If she knows you're going to be somewhere, and always looks better rather than a day when you bump into each other, I'd say she fancies you. Like most days I don't wear make up, but when I think/know I'll see the guy I fancy, I make sure it looks perfect, I'm wearing my nicest clothes and my hair is perfect too.

aprilshowers
September 8th, 2012, 06:12 PM
*Friends go off and leave the two of you together (they probably know and are doing this on purpose)
* laughs a lot
*Will bother to keep a conversation going without much input from the guy
*I you tell her you like her outfit, she'll wear it more often
*She'll go out of her way to get your attention if she sees you
*Nicknames =D

Mainly, she'll just act different. I act more sarcastic, and I feel more awkward about physical contact when I'm with the guy I like.

Josie95
September 9th, 2012, 01:33 AM
When I like a guy if I'm going somewhere and I know he's going to be there I'm going to make sure I look my best. I get very conscious about how I look. I'm going to try to look for ways to get close to him and touch him, see if he touches me back. I'll try to make eye contact with him and see if he holds the eye contact with me.