I think I messed up.

[Zarakly]

I sort of got the idea of this thread from someone else's thread, but anyway...
I think that I had actually led a girl on. I kept asking her out since 8th grade and she always said no. But then she sort of said yes(indirectly) she said she wanted me to go to the homecoming dance and stuff but i was sick. Then for winter carnival I couldn't go because of money so I told her I would take her to military ball but I didn't have enough money. That was way back in December when i last talked to her. Idk if she still likes me now and I feel bad because I sort of fell for this other girl the other night. I can't stop thinking about the new girl now and Idk what to do because I cannot contact this new girl anywhere. I thought I had gotten her lat name but only her first. Not sure which town but its definitely 1 out of 3 towns, and also I have searched and still cannot find her anywhere. But Idk what I should do. Try with the other girl that had denied me 3 times or try with the new girl who I have not asked yet only worked with at a booth in a festival.

[FreeFall]

I feel bad for old girl too since you kept up the show of liking her and then sort of vanished but hey, she missed the boat/her feelings for you came at the wrong time. And she's probably fine, if the last contact you two made was back in December she's probably moved on or something.

I say you try with new girl and learn from the past. Good luck (:

[Zarakly]

Last time I had talked with her was February 8th. And she didn't even reply. Last time she replied was December 22nd. So I think it probably is time to move on but idk I feel bad for her though...

[FreeFall]

Aw you made a mistake, it's alright. Not like it was serious, so no harm no foul. You pined after her, she rejected, one day accepted, and it didn't fall through. Take it as a it wasn't meant to be sign, and time to move forward. She wasn't happy probably but if there's anyone to kick it'd be herself for not seeing anything sooner. She's fine I'm sure, so don't dwell on the bad feelings and look forward to the next adventure of the romance life.

[Zarakly]

Thanks, thats one reason I always felt bad about dating is what the other person feels after. Lets just hop I do meet up with the new person again soon. Hopefully we have class together because if not then I will barely ever see her again. The class I met her in is a class I take at another school because my school doesn't have it so yea...

[plebble]

I'd try for the old girl

[AllNightLong]

She missed out on something ... just move on and if she gets atracted 2 u later in life thats ur chance (if ur still atracted 2 her) but just move on there are 7 billion ppl on this earth i bet there are girl that have the same intrest that you do that are pretty 2 .. Good luck

[ashdyn]

Both you and the original girl are probably not meant to be lol your timing was never right.

I do think that you need to be honest with her though if she does contact you again. I think you're not emotionally invested in the original girl regardless of whether you find the new girl again or not. That on top of the fact that you don't want to "settle"...and I'm sure the original girl wouldn't be too pleased if she found out she was the one you settled for or that she was just a backup.