Could I be gay?

[mikephelps]

Ever since my dick and balls finally started to grow and I started getting pubes I really like to look at myself naked in the mirror. I like to watch my sack swing back and forth when I move around. I think that's kinda normal for a guy going thru puberty but I also realy like lookin at other guys. Way more than I used to before I started gettin developed down there. If I'm going to the swim club with my friends I get a boner just thinkin about bein naked and seeing them naked. I can't make ti stop and the guys have seen it a couple times and realy give me a hard time. It's not like before when I'd get a boner and it went away after a couple minutes. It stays hard for like a half hour or 45 min. My close friends at the pool are kinda OK about it but I'm scared what's gonna happen when school starts with PE and swimming team practice. I've tried thinking about gross disgusting things and it doesn't work.

[volleyball17]

no it doesnt mean you are gay. you are going though puberty and might be curious.

[frankrocky]

That's all pretty normal and I think that you will get used to it pretty soon and then you will be able to control the erections. I have been exactly the same and I am on gay. You are just curious about your changing body and others around you that are changing also.

[Aidan]

Ever since my dick and balls finally started to grow and I started getting pubes I really like to look at myself naked in the mirror. I like to watch my sack swing back and forth when I move around. I think that's kinda normal for a guy going thru puberty but I also realy like lookin at other guys. Way more than I used to before I started gettin developed down there. If I'm going to the swim club with my friends I get a boner just thinkin about bein naked and seeing them naked. I can't make ti stop and the guys have seen it a couple times and realy give me a hard time. It's not like before when I'd get a boner and it went away after a couple minutes. It stays hard for like a half hour or 45 min. My close friends at the pool are kinda OK about it but I'm scared what's gonna happen when school starts with PE and swimming team practice. I've tried thinking about gross disgusting things and it doesn't work.

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You could be gay idk.

But most guys in puberty even after can get an erection at swimming or in showers after sports. Yes you say you like o see your mates naked in showeres etc

That is a sort of comfort security thing - you compare you are reassusred you ar ejust like them - growth - hair etc.

Its a wild time for all us guys puberty - everthing seems to change like every 5 minutes - desderate to grow up - then yikes random boners a sure sign you are growing then worried what you think or feel.

Take it easy dude.

I swim a bit and like every time I go to the pool its like boner time -

But you just have to accept it really.

here what works for me - tense your abs whils swimming good work out and in the showers also. Erections need blood and if you can keep your abs tensing then you might just get a semi or not at all.

takes practice but it can work.

also try and pack your locker / the same way

I put briefs into on trainer socks in the other
always shirt on top.

then its easy and quick to dress -



hope this helps

[Aidoon123]

Everyone looks and imagines. Its only curiosity your probobly just saying am i normal compared to other guys , and the boners are just these evil horomones.

[justin123]

you probably arent gay. you just sound very curious. it's the same with me

[dylanm312]

Ever since my dick and balls finally started to grow and I started getting pubes I really like to look at myself naked in the mirror. I like to watch my sack swing back and forth when I move around. I think that's kinda normal for a guy going thru puberty but I also realy like lookin at other guys. Way more than I used to before I started gettin developed down there. If I'm going to the swim club with my friends I get a boner just thinkin about bein naked and seeing them naked. I can't make ti stop and the guys have seen it a couple times and realy give me a hard time. It's not like before when I'd get a boner and it went away after a couple minutes. It stays hard for like a half hour or 45 min. My close friends at the pool are kinda OK about it but I'm scared what's gonna happen when school starts with PE and swimming team practice. I've tried thinking about gross disgusting things and it doesn't work.

That is a phenomenon that occurs when your hormones say "hmm, how can we fuck with [name] today? I know, let's make him think he's gay!"

It doesn't mean you're gay. It just means that your hormones are bouncing off the walls. Eventually they'll settle down and that whole thing will disappear. It happens to me too and probably every other guy on VT. If you just find them hot, that's normal. If you want to date them, that's going towards bi/gay. (Not to imply that being bi/gay isn't normal, I'm all for LGBT rights till the day I die!)

[saul1026]

youre only curious dont worry just masturbate before you go to pe or swim class and it will stay flaccid

[jokermaster101]

hey it does not mean you are gay. through puberty your body is going through some changes. I have thought about guys too, it happens to everybody even though some do not admit it.
if your friends give you a hard time then you need some better friends. you can get boners for anything so it may not be because you are turned on.

[dontfiguremeout]

Once school hits, and you are in the locker rooms, within a day or so, you'll be comfortable where you won't get a boner, since you'll be seeing them everyday.

[Lego]

Yeah its curiosity remember to fantasize about ladies too and you will be fine.

[Tevin]

I think you are a normal teen male. We all will check the other guy out. You may be bi but at this point I wouldn't be concerned with that. Just go on being you.

[Chris13]

I don't think it makes you gay. When I went through puberty I was very excited about it. And seeing other guys going through the same thing was exciting too. It's why a lot of guys compare and j/o together. I would suggest going to the bathroom and jerking off before you go swimming/ changing with other guys.

[Curiousguy95]

Maybe you r but I doubt it. I'm guessing it's just te hormones or u r curious

[chiliguy]

You're just curious. It's pretty normal :)

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Biscuithead13]

It's just puberty :) And there's no concrete thing to say your gay or not. I'm gay, but trust me I can appreciate a good looking girl on the beach or at the pool. I think as human we can just naturally tell whether a person of either gender is attractive or not. Think about it this way, when a straight guy calls another person handsome, or when a straight girl says another girl is pretty. It's human nature, it may not translate to physical feelings or emotional feelings, but still. Your mabye a lil curious, but it sounds like your more turned on by the situation of being naked around someone else, not the fact that you think another guy is hot.