No pleasure with orgasm (ejaculatory anhedonia)

[dylanm312]

Hi everyone, I have a bit of a problem here . The problem is that I have no pleasure when I orgasm. Instead it feels like a growing dull pain in my right hip (most men feel a tightening in their balls instead) that peaks (my climax) and then I just feel the muscle contractions and I'm really tired afterward. I Googled it and I think I have ejaculatory anhedonia,. Any ideas on how to get a more pleasurable orgasmic sensation?

Thanks,
Dylan

[DeletedAccount123]

Sorry man -- I guess people didn't have any personal experience, so they didn't know what to say.

This is probably something you should talk to a doctor about, or maybe a parent if you feel like you could manage to bring it up without being too embarrassed. I don't know anything about it except what I Googled, and it sounds as if you should look into it. Good luck....

[Saxophone 44]

Is stuff coming out? What color?

[Machinegun]

sorry : / idk how to help

[dylanm312]

Is stuff coming out? What color?

*rolls eyes at your condescendiness (is that a word?)*

Yes I do ejaculate, and the color of the semen is white. I jo about 1-3 times/day if that helps

By condescendiness I meant your use of the word "stuff" instead of semen

Sorry man -- I guess people didn't have any personal experience, so they didn't know what to say.

This is probably something you should talk to a doctor about, or maybe a parent if you feel like you could manage to bring it up without being too embarrassed. I don't know anything about it except what I Googled, and it sounds as if you should look into it. Good luck....

Thanks for responding :) but I couldn't even bring this up with my doctor, let alone my parents! If it has anything to do with my shyness, I'm on the autistivc spectrum level E, if that's means anything to anyone.

[chiisaiaoiryu]

WIsh I could help you man, but I've never heard of anything like that before. the best thing I can tell you is to talk to your doctor about it. WHile it may be embarrassing to talk to them about it, this is one of those reasons why they're your doctors. they can help you with this.

[saul1026]

tbat never happens to me

[Safest Way To Dance]

I guess it's just you and me man. I've been experiencing the same thing for about a week and a bit now, I've tried stopping but if someone like us went from 3times a day to 0, well let's just say we'd claw our skin off..
I hate it so much tho! I mean I used to love masturbating but now it's like just something to pass the time..

[Sleepwalking]

I guess you aren't on anti-depressants or anything, or any other type of drug?
I know certain ones can affect people sexually.

Couldn't you ask your mum/dad to make a doctor's appointment, but don't say what its for?
Or you could say its for something else but tell the doctor it's about this problem.