I accidentally led a guy on.

[Alliegator]

I don't know if it was accidental or not but he kept asking if I liked him so I said yes out of guilt and I dont know what to do know, all i see him as is a friend. I really need to get out of this situation.

[PinkFloyd]

Well if I was in your situation I would tell him how you're feeling. If he isn't a dickhead he will understand.

best of luck - Rob

[Alliegator]

Well if I was in your situation I would tell him how you're feeling. If he isn't a dickhead he will understand.

best of luck - Rob

How do you tell someone "sorry i was just joking when i said that i like you" without hurting their feelings?

[FreeFall]

Well, you've got to fix it.

Just tell him you only see him as a friend and that you're sorry if you've hurt him.

Good luck! (:

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

Always be honest...and you can do it without making him feel bad. But don't ever say "we need to talk".

[dontfiguremeout]

It happened to me with one of my close friend, but she said she is not ready. So all you have to do is say your just not ready to be in a relationship. After a while you'll forget it, and sooner or later he'll stop liking you.

[Lego]

Yeah just tell him the truth and you were being nice but just see him as a friend and ask if thats ok with him.

[Mortal Coil]

You're going to have to break it to him somehow. Just apologize for giving him the wrong impression, and set him straight.

[Aidan]

I don't know if it was accidental or not but he kept asking if I liked him so I said yes out of guilt and I dont know what to do know, all i see him as is a friend. I really need to get out of this situation.


Ok so you are friends with this guy and he was Asking and asking again and again if you liked him.

So you then saud yes out of GUILT -- what guilt .

Sounds to me like he is a dick, just trying to be freinds and only wanting sex.

was he bullying you - pressuring you - sounds like it to me.


Its his fault - there can be no friendship there.

[Alliegator]

Thank you guys so much for the advice, i hope this all goes over well.

[NotAvailable]

I don't know if it was accidental or not but he kept asking if I liked him so I said yes out of guilt and I dont know what to do know, all i see him as is a friend. I really need to get out of this situation.

Why did you feel guilt ? i mean are you hesitated about your feeling toward him ? or did you feel attracted to him then u realized he was just a friend ?
any how .. i think - if you are sure that you like him as a friend only- you should tell him , don't give it longer time .. be honest with him and i'm sure things will be alright .

[Eagle63]

Ive been in the situation before, my plan was to tell her that id rather be friends for a long time instead of only dating for a small while. Things didnt go as expected and I wound up breaking up with her out of anger because I was used to make someone else jealous...

But yeah, tell him youd rather be friends for a long time than only date for a little bit! Hope this helps!

[West Coast Sheriff]

Just say u don't like him no more

[TheKid17]

say this: "yeah I like you, but i'm not in like with you."

[DerBear]

You are going to just have to tell him straight up that you don't have feelings for him in that way and that you only said that to make him feel better. As I think you are past the point of being able to tell him "nicely".

I think you should just come clean and tell him how you truly feel.

[Clawhammer]

Facing the facts, it wasn't a very "nice thing" that you did, so you really can't sugar-coat it. Telling someone that because of guilt and pity is downright insulting, so just apologize and be honest and straightforward.

[tmd215]

The easist thing to do is make sure he knows how you feel

[jojorob]

Its the worst situation of all time from both ends so just tell him the harsh truth he will probably always still like you for some odd reason

[ashdyn]

You are going to just have to tell him straight up that you don't have feelings for him in that way and that you only said that to make him feel better. As I think you are past the point of being able to tell him "nicely".

I think you should just come clean and tell him how you truly feel.

Don't tell him you only said it to make him feel better. That would make me feel pathetic. Just tell him that you meant you liked him as a friend.

You: Hey can we talk?
Boy: Sure babe!
You: Remember when you asked me if I liked you...and I said yes?
Boy: Yes! :D
You: Well what I meant to say was I really really like you but as a friend. I'm sorry if I gave you the wrong impression. (here's where the bs comes in) It's just that I really love having you as my friend and I would hate to lose that.
Boy: D:
You: *extra boob pressing hug*
Boy: *sad erection*
You: *walk away*

PROBLEM SOLVED