Never had girlfriend or kissed a girl.

[Teenager]

I'm 15 years old, 16 in April, and I've never had a girlfriend or had my first kiss. All my friends have got girlfriends or have at least snogged a girl, but I haven't. I'm worried that I will never get a girlfriend as I'm not confident around girls at all, I go all weak at the knees and end up talking rubbish when around girls I like. I really feel that I am missing out on a major part of my childhood and that longer I go on without a girlfriend the harder it will be for me to get one.

[Gumleaf]

there is no easy way to be confident around girls. maybe you should try and be friends with more girls and gain confidence around them without any pressure. then over time you maight be able to build up enough confidence to ask one out. just remember, there is no rush and i know i would prefer my first kiss to be with someone i really liked and not to tick a box off a list of things guys are supposed to do.

[Maverick]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[underoath12192]

i know plenty of guys who are 15 and have never had a gf or kissed a girl. I hadn't until about 14. You will eventually. As for the confidence thing, well, if you're going to say ask a girl out, its normal to be pretty nervous. In fact, I'd be amazed if you weren't!

[Paige1989]

I'm seventeen and, although female, can relate to an extent. First all, I'm straight - thought I'd clarify. Anyway, I'm seventeen with the same issue...but what gets me the most, moreso than my friends dating, is the fact that my fourteen-year-old sister has had more boyfriends than I can count. :S And now she's threatening to try to set me up! >_> I've asked two guys out - one said no because he liked someone else and the other...well, we were more friends than anything else so I don't count that at all. The two guys I have asked out, though, have both been really good friends of mine so it's not so much of a confidence problem as it is the fact that I am attracted to people I know are 'just friends' but I try anyway...so good luck to you, but don't feel abnormal. :)

~~Paige

[Serenity]

Hey Teenager, calm down! You probably have at least another ten or fifteen years to date- it's absolutely fine to be 15 [or 16...or 17] and not have been in a relationship before. I'm 16 and I've only had one that lasted a month and brought a lot more unhappiness than happiness. My advice- don't worry so much about dating, worry more about enjoying what's left of childhood. Lol or non-adulthood if you'd rather not be considered a child :P You'll have the rest of your life to worry about dating- you'll never get the chance to be young again.

[Teenager]

Thanks for all the advice.

I'm not a freak ! :P

[sassy boi]

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[Archduke Robert of France]

You don't have to actively seek out girls. If they like your personality, they'll come to you and your relationships will probably be better off that way. Besides, if they approach you it'll be like making a new friend without having the anxiety of going up to a girl and asking her out, etc.

[Teenager]

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Cheers my fellow English pal.

[Aηdy]

I used to be in the same position as you, but just go for it, you probally will have a few bad experiences but it will be worth it in the end when you get the decent girl! It was only a few months ago I first did a lot of things. I know reading this you'll be thinking you'll just mess up, well you might, but it will help build vonfidence and you'll eventually learn what is best! And remember not having a girlfriend isn't the worst thing!

[Prince Jellyfish]

All that "if you don't use it you lose it" crap is stupid. Wait for a relationship to find you. Don't force it.
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[Whisper]

prince if you ever post links like that again i swear to god i'll freeze you