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Darunia
August 18th, 2012, 11:15 PM
... or not?

I've talked with friends about masturbation. They told me that the best moment was when cum spurted out, and that it was the moment they had orgasm.

I've never had that; I jerk off until the good feelings gets on me and strikes like lightning. My dick gets then very hard, as if trying to jump out of its skin, and I'm like paralyzed for some seconds. Then my body slowly relaxes and I get back control of myself. But nothing ever spurts out.

What's wrong with me? Is it because I don't go far enough (though I think I feel that kindof explosion in the brain others described) ? Or something else? What can I do to get the juice go out? I've tried to push as if I was forcing pee out, but I really can't do that, it is like all my muscles refuse to respond to what I tell them to do.

Ideas?

Ian10
August 18th, 2012, 11:38 PM
I dont know how to answer this for you

eggs2006
August 19th, 2012, 12:18 AM
Your having an dry orgasm, Just like the regular ones, but without the semen. Your body is still developing and you just haven't made semen yet. Just give it some time and it will happen.

Drewtsit
August 19th, 2012, 01:18 AM
It depends on how old you are? You might not be mature or just naturally slow at it

Jmac
August 19th, 2012, 01:22 AM
Your having an dry orgasm, Just like the regular ones, but without the semen. Your body is still developing and you just haven't made semen yet. Just give it some time and it will happen.

Yeah your just late hitting puberty

West Coast Sheriff
August 19th, 2012, 01:44 AM
Ur body may steel be developing

chronic06
August 19th, 2012, 03:26 AM
this happened to me the first time or two i masturbated. it was pretty crazy to say the least, and now i'm sure it's just because my body hadn't developed enough yet. and unless this is still happening to you a year or two down the road, then you're fine.

Irishboy15
August 19th, 2012, 04:31 AM
Yeah, but why not keep going anyway!!! Whats the worst that could happen =D

anymasy
August 19th, 2012, 08:34 AM
It is because you are gay :P

IAMWILL
August 19th, 2012, 09:58 AM
It is because you are gay :P

Don't listen to that, ejaculation has zero to do with sexuality.

It is because you are developing late and your body hasn't begun to produce semen yet. At 15, you definitely should start soon though. However don't worry about it, honestly its better to not be able to ejaculate, as long as your not trying to have a child right now, because you don't have to deal with cleaning up.

Philip97
August 19th, 2012, 11:48 AM
U can't cum yet but enjoy the orgasms while u can as they are not messy

JimmyIsNowAMan
August 19th, 2012, 12:05 PM
Do you have wet dreams at nite? Maybe you just produce enough cum for a wet dream. Your body will make enough cum soon. Just enjoy it.

Darunia
August 19th, 2012, 12:19 PM
@eggs2006, @Jmac, @Fman, : Yeah, that's probably the reason. I'm sure late compared to most of my friends.

@Drewtsit: I'm 15.

@chronic06: Happened to me much more than twice :D

@Irishboy15: When I have the orgasm, I can't continue during it, all my muscles are tense, like paralyzed, for a few seconds. But once it is finished, yeah, sure, sometimes I continue :D

@anymasy: Great, I thought it was because my favourite color was blue.

@IAMWILL: You sure it is better? From what friends were saying, it feels better with cum, is it true?

@Philip97: I'm sure enjoying them :D It is just a pity I can't do the same as everybody else :/

@bastaya50: No, I've never had any sperm at night.

I'm reassured in a way, because I thought I maybe wasn't masturbating the proper way and lacked something important :D

jay_
August 19th, 2012, 12:20 PM
do you have pubes?

Darunia
August 19th, 2012, 12:26 PM
do you have pubes?
No, none yet.:mad:

andrew2020
August 19th, 2012, 03:18 PM
No, none yet.:mad:

I might visit the doctor if I was you. You could possibly have delayed puberty and that's why you have no pubic hair or you can't ejaculate. Your doctor should have said something about it when you are at physicals to make sure you are developing correctly. If you do go they will give you hormones like testosterone to jump start puberty and eventually help get pubes and ejaculate. When you have your physical this year, ask your doctor and he/she will help.

Darunia
August 21st, 2012, 06:36 PM
I might visit the doctor if I was you. You could possibly have delayed puberty and that's why you have no pubic hair or you can't ejaculate. Your doctor should have said something about it when you are at physicals to make sure you are developing correctly. If you do go they will give you hormones like testosterone to jump start puberty and eventually help get pubes and ejaculate. When you have your physical this year, ask your doctor and he/she will help.
Already have. Hormonal treatment will only be done after I'm 16 if that's necessary. Thanks for your concern though!

jojorob
August 21st, 2012, 08:42 PM
if your 15 this probably means your a late bloomer

Dannyboy95
August 22nd, 2012, 01:50 AM
you havent started producing semen yet , give it time and you will