Should I Do Anything?

[Lithium]

This girl and I have been dating and stuff for the past 5 months or so I like her but I haven't asked her out yet so we're not officially together or anything. She moved here from England and in the summer she went back to see old friends and stuff.

But yesterday she sent me a message saying she was going on a date with this guy she met and asked me if I cared or not, I told her I kinda care but go ahead since its my fault that I didn't ask her out yet. After the date I asked her how it went and she said 'Yeah he pretty much ate my face about 3 times' after that I felt like shit, So I told her that I actually did care and I feel like shit.
So should I make a fuss about it and not really see her any more? But some of my friends were saying it doesn't really sound like her cause she wouldn't be so blunt about what happened and maybe she did it so I would get jealous or that its a hint that we should sorta speed it up cause we haven't kissed yet and all we do it hold hands and cuddle.

So I don't know what to tell her or was she just hinting and thanks in advance :)

[root]

Well if you like her, then go for her. If she doesn't want you as a bf, and if you really like her, then you'll accept her decision and be her friend. If you like her a lot, do what's best for her.

[Burn007]

I dont think Eating her face was a good thing o.O but il tell u one thing NEVER,NEVER,NEVER play smart and leave a girl u like alot.....that will just psycho kill u if ur not extra mentally strong.....i,well i did that so yeah DONT do it

[FreeFall]

She got her face eaten, that's usually a he wouldn't get off of my face ugh. One usually isn't happy about having her face "eaten".

Like you said, it is your fault you haven't asked her out. You can either use this as a hey I really like you, be mine please. And not worry about her dating other guys, she is single right now. She's free to do as she please with whomever, there's no boyfriend to worry about.

If you feel strongly, ask her out. If you're forever going to see her differently because she went on a date with another guy while single, the ship's sadly sailed and you should just be friends.

[justinglives]

No! Just let it go!

[Taryn98]

You need to ask her out. You never know what she'll say unless you do it. Maybe she went out with the other guy to make you jealous, so you'll speed up your process.

[Aidan]

This girl and I have been dating and stuff for the past 5 months or so I like her but I haven't asked her out yet so we're not officially together or anything. She moved here from England and in the summer she went back to see old friends and stuff.

But yesterday she sent me a message saying she was going on a date with this guy she met and asked me if I cared or not, I told her I kinda care but go ahead since its my fault that I didn't ask her out yet. After the date I asked her how it went and she said 'Yeah he pretty much ate my face about 3 times' after that I felt like shit, So I told her that I actually did care and I feel like shit.
So should I make a fuss about it and not really see her any more? But some of my friends were saying it doesn't really sound like her cause she wouldn't be so blunt about what happened and maybe she did it so I would get jealous or that its a hint that we should sorta speed it up cause we haven't kissed yet and all we do it hold hands and cuddle.

So I don't know what to tell her or was she just hinting and thanks in advance :)



Seems like you may be missing the boat here so ask her out and she did call you and say she was going on a date - if thats not her wanting to date you I dont know what is.

[ForeverSecretive]

I agree with Aidan - telling you she was going out with a guy and checking how you felt with it definitely seems to me like she wants to date you! Go for it mate!

[NotAvailable]

You should Definitely as her out , there is nothing to fear , there is nothing to loose .

just ask her , probably the results will be good.

[Lithium]

When she gets back I'll ask her out the first time we meet up. Thanks for all the replies (: