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diceman47
August 19th, 2007, 11:28 PM
K well my freind/family are a nudists and he just recently told me. He has invited me over for a sleepover. Two questions:

1. Will he get dressed for my presance?
2. Should i get nude with him?

Gumleaf
August 19th, 2007, 11:30 PM
question 1. i don't know, and i don't think anyone will no the answer to that one. for question 2, do whats comfortable for you. if you feel comfortable joining in then so be it, but if you don't feel comfortable doing that then don't. they shouldn't hold that against you.

underoath12192
August 19th, 2007, 11:33 PM
I don't know for the first one but for the second, do whatever you feel comfortable with. I doubt their gonna force you to go naked but then again I know nothing about your friend. But who knows, you might feel stranger being the only clothed one! lol

Crazysam
August 20th, 2007, 02:47 AM
1. I'm sorry but noone on this forum can tell you that, I hope he would though :)

2. Whether or not you wish to get naked with him is entirely your own preference. Do you trust him? Are you confident naked? Is he naked?

If the answers to all of these are yes then I would say yes. Afterall theres nothing harmfull about being nude. :D

Gavin
August 20th, 2007, 05:23 AM
i think you should do what you think its right just because the family are nudist doesn't mean you should get nude with him although geting nude with your friends sounds quite tempting

LateForTheSky
August 20th, 2007, 11:50 AM
If he is a nudist he might but he might not because u are not. The second question well that's all a matter of choice do what u feel. Personaly I would

Trickster
August 20th, 2007, 02:03 PM
i think you should do what you think its right just because the family are nudist doesn't mean you should get nude with him although geting nude with your friends sounds quite tempting
Hes right do what you think just cuz he is a nudist doesnt mean you should be nude to. It would be polite if he dressed but if he dosent dont get prssured into it.

byee
August 20th, 2007, 04:31 PM
K well my freind/family are a nudists and he just recently told me. He has invited me over for a sleepover. Two questions:

1. Will he get dressed for my presance?
2. Should i get nude with him?


It sounds like you're having a reaction to your friends admission of his family's extracirricular activities! Maybe you need to talk with him about this and ask him these questions!

I think it's a safe bet that, like many activities people like, 1) they don;t necessarily assume you share their enjoyment of them, and 2) they wouldn;t surprise you at the door by engaging in them. Nudity is something that people tend to do around others that share the same value, not impose them on houseguests. Especially with a minor.

Talk this over with your friend.

diceman47
August 20th, 2007, 10:42 PM
Ya hey thanks for all the support but i still don't no what to do i am going over to his house and my parents just told me that i have to stay over their for a couple of nights. So i am guessing that he will be naked or that would just be plan rude for my parents to ask them to stay dressed for 3 days. So if they are dressed do you think I should tell them they can stay naked or should i let them do what they do?

Maverick
August 20th, 2007, 10:59 PM
If they're dressed then let them stay dressed. I think it would be odd to tell someone it's ok to be naked. It least for me it would. :confused:

byee
August 21st, 2007, 10:03 AM
Ya hey thanks for all the support but i still don't no what to do i am going over to his house and my parents just told me that i have to stay over their for a couple of nights. So i am guessing that he will be naked or that would just be plan rude for my parents to ask them to stay dressed for 3 days. So if they are dressed do you think I should tell them they can stay naked or should i let them do what they do?

I think you missed my point! If you're worried about this, ask your friend!

If you are too embarassed to do this, I suspect that like most activities that people do, they will not impose it on you without telling you (and your parents) first. If they haven't, then I'd assume they'll be clothed. And you will too. And you shouldn't speak of it.

dannyley
August 21st, 2007, 08:30 PM
here are my answers

1) as he is a nudist i would think that he would stay nude foryour presence

2) maybe its in your best interests to do what is comfortable with your body, but will he be offended if you dont get nude with him,

ohhhhh and
3) its a long shot this one,but maybe he is hoping for you to get nude so that you can circle jerk with eachother