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ToFlyAbove
August 18th, 2012, 01:44 AM
I used to be happy. Sure I was shy, but I was confident in my appearance and I felt okay about my life. My big sister decided that just because her life was hell mine should be too. She tells me constantly that I'm fat and ugly and worthless and other things I don't like saying. She and my little sister constantly joke about me being gay to their friends and it really hurts. My parents tell me to ignore it but how am I supposed to let it just roll off my back. Because of what they said I eventually got suicidal, tried to kill myself, got put on meds that made me fat, and ultimately turned me into the person my sister had been telling me I was for years.

Burn007
August 18th, 2012, 02:49 AM
Come the hur and flush everything u told us here in your face....But do it in a diffrent way,using the "nice" words(Fu*k,bit*h etc.)
Believe me that helps a lot at least it did to me for some stuff

Boldor
August 18th, 2012, 06:47 AM
She and my little sister constantly joke about me being gay to their friends and it really hurts.

I'll try not to take this one personally.

irishguy123
August 18th, 2012, 06:56 AM
stand up for yourself!!!

Mortal Coil
August 18th, 2012, 06:58 AM
Hey, I'm really sorry to hear about this. May I ask which medicine you're on?

Verbal abuse is awful, and there really isn't much you can do about it unfortunately. Unfortunately I can't tell you much else; I'm not really good at this, but remember that absolutely nothing your sister says is worth taking your own life. Like you said, she was trying to make your life horrible. She wanted you to suffer. That means that it wasn't true.
Heep your head high, beautiful.

WickedWeekend
August 18th, 2012, 09:40 AM
You can ignore it, or you can do something about it. Attempt to sit down and talk with your sister about this. Try with all of your might to have a civilized conversation with her. Tell her you don't like this and you want it to stop immediately. If that doesn't work, try with all your might to ask your parents what to do, after telling them this situation is serious and you can't just ignore it. If all else fails, seek a counselor to help you through this time and ask for advice. Don't just stand there and take the punches! Stand up and do something about it! If you need anymore help please do not hesitate to ask us. Most of us are more than willing to help, if not all of us are. Good luck!:)

Truth
August 18th, 2012, 04:47 PM
Have you ever considered something OP?

Maybe... you are a great girl. A girl with many good traits, who looks nice, and is sweet to everyone she knows. Maybe your sisters were both jealous, and knew they could never be better than you.

So rather than be nice, they bully you and put you down so they can feel better about themselves, the fact that they're a waste of space on this earth. They think, "If we can get through to her she will stop being the favorite..."

Don't let it get through to you. Trust me, verbal abuse is a waste of time. I'm verbally abused often, but I'm the type of person who'll punch a guy in the face for bullying me...

Something you should know: Everyone is ugly. All of those hot girls in your school waste more than 30% of the time they are awake editing and fixing their appearance. Do you want to waste 30% of your life just so you can think you're more popular?

toobigforlife
August 18th, 2012, 06:42 PM
Girl stand up for yourself speak your mind tell them how you feel and make sure they hear every word you have to say let all your anger out. Because they are going to respect you. Thats not a maybe or they wont they WILL respect you and dont sit back and let them talk to you like that when you do they think ohhh well since she wont do anything I can keep going. NO!! thats not the case anymore dont be afraid to speak out you dont need to earn their respect they need to earn your respect.

VictoriaGotaSecret
August 18th, 2012, 11:40 PM
im the same way. my dad is the reason i have atempted suicide and am suicidal. i wasnt happy before but the abuse finally took me past my limit.

ECSTASY
August 19th, 2012, 12:12 PM
come on man ... don't importance what they say... live for your self ;)