Is He Gay Too?!

[Biscuithead13]

Ok this is ripping at me. Theres a guy in my AP English class who since the first day of school just seems to give me those "gay vibes" if you know what I mean. The first day we'd glance at each other, but nothing special, but for some reason when we would make eye contact I just had this "He can tell I'm gay" feeling. So anyways the next week we get to talking, I came out to him and a mutual friend and it went well, but he's actually very shy, at least around me. He talks to other people with confidence but for some reason he stutters when he talks to me. He'll approach me all the time but usually smiles at me and fumbles for words, I think its cute :) One lunch period, he was explaing that girls usally talk and treat him like the gay friend, so I asked him "Are you....?" without saying the word gay but he was quick to say "No I'm straight." I asked a few days later if he had a girlfriend, he said yes, but that they had trouble seeing each other because she is always "running around the school," but I've never seen him appear to be intimate with a girl, and every girl I've seen him with either just talked to him in a friend way, or spoke of a boyfriend, but it wasnt him. Whenever we talk he constantly has a smile on his face, and often during class, if I glance over his direction, I'll catch him looking in my direction 90% of the time. So, is he gay or mabye confused?

[Lost in the Echo]

There might be a chance he is gay, but I think he just has a " guy crush " on you. It happens with everybody no matter what their sexual orientation is. So I think he acts weird around you because he has a guy crush on you, he definitely likes you though.

[Guillermo]

Honestly, it just sounds like he's being friendly and maybe even borderline overly-friendly when he smiles at you and stuff. He could just be a really shy guy just trying to make more friends. But still, that doesn't mean anything about his sexuality. If he's stated that he's straight then leave it at that. However, if he comes back around and says something different, then there ya have it. But don't make him uncomfortable and keep asking him about his sexuality. Just remain friends with him and see where things go.

[Tucker13]

It could be he is just a friend. Or it could be he is bi

[Brice]

Well, he could be just one of the kind of people who aren't used to having guy friends, gay or not, and he's trying not to mess it up. Or these others are right. :)

[Aidan]

Ok this is ripping at me. Theres a guy in my AP English class who since the first day of school just seems to give me those "gay vibes" if you know what I mean. The first day we'd glance at each other, but nothing special, but for some reason when we would make eye contact I just had this "He can tell I'm gay" feeling. So anyways the next week we get to talking, I came out to him and a mutual friend and it went well, but he's actually very shy, at least around me. He talks to other people with confidence but for some reason he stutters when he talks to me. He'll approach me all the time but usually smiles at me and fumbles for words, I think its cute :) One lunch period, he was explaing that girls usally talk and treat him like the gay friend, so I asked him "Are you....?" without saying the word gay but he was quick to say "No I'm straight." I asked a few days later if he had a girlfriend, he said yes, but that they had trouble seeing each other because she is always "running around the school," but I've never seen him appear to be intimate with a girl, and every girl I've seen him with either just talked to him in a friend way, or spoke of a boyfriend, but it wasnt him. Whenever we talk he constantly has a smile on his face, and often during class, if I glance over his direction, I'll catch him looking in my direction 90% of the time. So, is he gay or mabye confused?



well his sexuality is his business and his alone unless he makes a choice to tell you.

I would just leave it and do not be so intrusive, he might have wanted to tell you but the fact you went to ask put him of.

[Biscuithead13]

Yeah I agree. When I showed a picture of my boyfriend to someone, he looked too, but that may not mean anything. He IS shy, so I dont wanna intrude. I'm gonna think about it this way, I have a friend in him if nothing else, and I also just got out of a relationship with a guy two days ago, and I have a full two years with this guy, so I mean I have all the time I need to figure it out, its nice to have another friend though. :)

[dontfiguremeout]

You can't judge someone's sexuality based on how you think they act towards you. Especially at this time in their life when hormones are going crazy! This guy is either curious, or maybe just wants to be your friend. Sometimes I end up looking at a guy because it would be cool to be their friend, or get to know them! And honestly some guys who hang out with girls all the time can be shy near guys (and they can be straight). And so maybe he just wants to be friends with you again, but is shy because he's always hung out with girls. But reading this, you should get to know him and become friends with him. I think he's trying to hint to you saying lets be friends, more than I am gay and I like you.

[Antagonist]

I've had a situation like this. Always caught the same dude looking at me all the time after I came out. Never really got the courage to ask what was wrong. Uh. I don't know what to say other than study his actions. If he acts like one of those gay frends, then maybe he is lol.

[CcRoder]

I've had one of those kind of people. I kind of got mad at him, but I found out he was only doing that because I was the only one being nice to him at the time and it meant a lot....maybe that's what's happening?

[Mattman98]

I have learned that it is not always as it seems, I've had a friend for over a year and thought he was completely straight and he thought the same of me until we finally opened up to each other. he could be gay or bi and is just shy about it, and that's normal. Aren't we all a little shy about it at first?

[Biscuithead13]

Well I think he's straight or curious, either way he's pretty cool and a good friend. I actually got a little something wiff a friend from a highschool near mine whos gay so me and him are gonna hang out some, cuz he wants to date and I want to as well, but I dont know him well enough yet and just got out of a relationship so I dont want a relationship atm. I feel like I jump from guy to guy, so I wanna just take it slow and get to know him :)

[Danny_boi 16]

Ok this is ripping at me. Theres a guy in my AP English class who since the first day of school just seems to give me those "gay vibes" if you know what I mean. The first day we'd glance at each other, but nothing special, but for some reason when we would make eye contact I just had this "He can tell I'm gay" feeling. So anyways the next week we get to talking, I came out to him and a mutual friend and it went well, but he's actually very shy, at least around me. He talks to other people with confidence but for some reason he stutters when he talks to me. He'll approach me all the time but usually smiles at me and fumbles for words, I think its cute :) One lunch period, he was explaing that girls usally talk and treat him like the gay friend, so I asked him "Are you....?" without saying the word gay but he was quick to say "No I'm straight." I asked a few days later if he had a girlfriend, he said yes, but that they had trouble seeing each other because she is always "running around the school," but I've never seen him appear to be intimate with a girl, and every girl I've seen him with either just talked to him in a friend way, or spoke of a boyfriend, but it wasnt him. Whenever we talk he constantly has a smile on his face, and often during class, if I glance over his direction, I'll catch him looking in my direction 90% of the time. So, is he gay or mabye confused?

I think he may be a shy-friendly guy.

[LatinaVivit]

Whether or not he is gay or not, it don't push him too much. Gay teens grow out of their shells at different rates so you shouldn't make him too uncomfortable.

[Aidoon123]

Ask him but be subtle