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Slim7
August 17th, 2012, 01:08 PM
This is about Me and my Girlfriend. We broke up before and were together for a Year, Now we are back together and it is almost a year again. I love her a lot! She feel's the same way about me. We used to hang out a lot but she moved to another city, the only way I get to see her is when I go over my Cousin's house and walk to her house. I am hitting a rough time, when we talk there is an Awkward Silence sometimes and the convo's get boring. I don't know what else to talk to her about, I usually talk to her about how she is, how her day was, what she's up to. Yesterday I was over her house and I played basketball with her brother. He invited her Ex over to play with us, once I got home I started texting her. I felt something was wrong and she was very sad, She told she hates her Ex and she forgot about him until he came to play basketball. She told me "Idk if I don't like him".

Can you guys give Me Idea's how to get her happy again? I am trying as best as I can. I even biked to her house which was 20miles away!

Harley Quinn
August 17th, 2012, 01:14 PM
Talk to her, you can't help her until you know what's going on in her life. Ask what her ex has done to upset/make her hate him, and from that you'll know what she wants and how to make her happy. Other than that surprises are key, and don't feel like it's a chore to see someone. You either want to see her or you don't, and I'm sure she appreciates it. Ask her what will make her happy, build off of what she's said and go from there. Either way, there's something she isn't telling you about her ex and you need to know what it is.

root
August 17th, 2012, 01:26 PM
Wow, you really do like her.

That's sweet. Show her how much you like her. Anyone would be happy to know that.

Talk to her over the phone, text, facebook but don't talk to her to the point that it get's annoying. (moderation,lol)

The Chameleon
August 17th, 2012, 01:36 PM
If she still likes her ex than that's a sore spot but tell her that I can still work even though you guys are farther apart.

Slim7
August 17th, 2012, 02:05 PM
From what she told me about her Ex is, That he cheated on her that is all i know :/. She is upset because she tries her best to forget about him but can't.