My gf may be pregnant

[tmd215]

About a month ago, me and my girlfriend had sex and I cummed in her pussy. We are both noticing signs of pregnancy but she doesn't want to admit anything! We/re only 15 and we don't know what to do? Help!

[lou lou]

why in the hell did you not use a condom?!?!?!?
and go talk to your parents about it they can help (sometimes)

[tmd215]

We were quite drunk and I don't think our parents will be ok about it all! We are just so worried

[Mortal Coil]

Get her an abortion. It sounds crazy, but tell your parents. No parents are going to react terribly well, but you need to face the consequences of your actions, whether that means parents' disdain or 18 years of raising a kid.

[workingatperfect]

Go to the drug store and buy a pregnancy test. If it's negative, congrats, if it's positive, you need to tell both your parents. You can't take care of this on your own, and they're going to notice in a couple months anyway, so the sooner you tell them, the better.

[tmd215]

We don't know when to have a test! When can you do a test?

[workingatperfect]

I believe 2 or 3 weeks after conception is when most tests will tell. It's definitely been long enough if it was a month ago.

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Serious 15 is wayyyy to young to have kids!! For anyone! Or even having sex for that matter really... you need to talk to your parents about it and like evil.angel said abortion!

[Love.Hate]

You have to admit responsibility and tell her parents (and yours) decide what you want to do, with guidence from people who know how hard it is having kids. Trust me babies arent easy, especially for someone your age.

I hope you learn your lesson and use contraception in the future.

[Cognizant]

Go to the drug store and buy a pregnancy test. If it's negative, congrats, if it's positive, you need to tell both your parents. You can't take care of this on your own, and they're going to notice in a couple months anyway, so the sooner you tell them, the better.

Most helpful answer award goes to....

Yelling at him that he should've used a condom/be more responsible, while is true, isn't helping the OP.

Just because she's showing the signs of pregnancy doesn't exactly mean that she's pregnant, but do go get a pregnancy test and test out. If she is, well, the decision is hers as to if she wants to keep it or abort it.

[StoppingTime]

You need to buy a pregnancy test. There is nothing you can do to change what already happened, but of course, you should have been more careful.
If the test comes back positive, then you two need to tell your parents. As previously said, no parent will react in a "good" way to this, but you brought that on yourself.
Regardless of whether your girlfriend does or does not get an abortion, someone needs to be told; two fifteen year olds can't do this alone.

[xXJust Jump ItXx]

Oh I should say... Sometimes, SOMETIMES... if a girl is stressed enough into thinking she is pregnant she may show signs of it but actually not be, I really hope thats the case for you here and really next time dont get drunk and do that and use protection! What is the drinking age in the UK?

[Gigablue]

Get a pregnancy test as soon as possible. If it's negative, consider yourself lucky and use contraception in the future. If ever you forget, use emergency contraception the next day, you can get it at the pharmacy or from a doctor.

If the test is positive tell your parents immediately. You will have three options. The first is to raise a child. At your age, it will be next to impossible, unless your parents help extensively, or raise the child themselves. You could also put the child up for adoption. This is difficult, but easier than parenting. The last option is an abortion, the sooner it's preformed, the less likely there will be complications. These complications will likely be less than childbirth, however.

Whatever you decide to do, make sure you and your girlfriend both agree. The decision affects her even more than you since it is her body.

[Tucker13]

Go buy condoms next time

[Irishboy15]

I love our society, my 15 year old girlfriend might be pregnant, and we didn't use a condom cause we were too drunk -_- wow just wow, only tell your parents if she is pregnant, we shouldn't be having sex at our age!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!