hymen

[Clara13]

I was talking with this boy at school about sex ( something I figure out I liked to do) and he asked me if I was a virgin, I sad yes, and he asked about my hymen, and them I could not answer that, couse I can fit 3 fingers all the way, so it means that I dont have hymen anymore? Can I be considered a virgin, since I never had intercourse? Can my hymen be this "elastic"? Its possible to look at your hymen in a mirror? He dared me to show him a photo of this. Thanks girls

[workingatperfect]

No, you can't look at your hymen in the mirror. First of all, you might not be reaching your hymen with your fingers, some can, some can't. Second, the hymen doesn't completely close you off, if it did you wouldn't have periods and that would be cause for concern. So that could be another reason that you can fit your fingers all the way in. And finally, stretching your hymen (it's a misconception that it's broken or "popped") does not make you a non virgin. That can be done with fingers, toys, or tampons and none of those things affect your virginity.

[lou lou]

Yes you can still be consitered a virgin. Yes your hymen can be that "elastic" its diffrent for each girl. And don't do the picture, never take pictures of yourself for a guy. A face shot is ok, but never your "personal area".

[Harley Quinn]

No sex = virgin, whether or not your hymen is actually broken. As said above, many factors can have already broken your hymen. Taking pictures of things like that is not only wrong, but illegal so I'd advise not to do it.

[ClaireMarie]

Technically, if you have never had intercourse you are still considered a virgin.

[Alliegator]

Your hymen has nothing to do with your virginity. If it's still there then it's probably stretched and not fully intact. don't send him a picture! if any adult finds it or anything, he could be charged for possession of child pornography and you could be too. plus you're reputation would be ruined, he'd most likely show his friends too.

[Christine.]

You still are

[swimgurl97]

you are still a virgin because you never had sexual intercourse. your hymen can get broken in so many ways.

[FreeFall]

My personal definition of heterosexual sex: If a penis has never gone into your vagina, you're still a virgin.
You cannot see your hymen in the mirror, and don't take pics of it for him. Don't do it. You may not be reaching your hymen, but it may have been broken already

[Harley Quinn]

If a penis has never gone into your vagina, you're still a virgin.

That would mean lesbians are virgins forever, so technically it doesn't have to be a penis. But then again it would depend on your definition of sex.

[Clara13]

Ok, thank you guys for the answers. And no, Im not taking that picture, no matter what. But I can still tease him about it, though.:yeah:

[FreeFall]

That would mean lesbians are virgins forever, so technically it doesn't have to be a penis. But then again it would depend on your definition of sex.
Yea, I was going by my personal definition of sex but reading it again what I said sounds a bit insensitive.
My apologies.

[AbbaZabba]

Lost my hymen to a hairbrush handle, but I'm still a virgin. No sex is still a virgin.