what should i do?

[Mollie]

im not sure where this thread should go but im freaking out about it so i thought it could be classed as a mental crisis...

iv just realised ive been a complete bitch to a few people, but i found out because i was being nosey and read some stuff that i shouldnt have read

so i cant go to them and apologise cos of how i found out there was a problem

but i dont know what to do cos theres this one guy that ive basically treated like shit without realisin it

he asked me for help and i accused him of being an attention seeker, and i told my friend i hoped she wouldnt get into university so i could laugh about it (i meant it as a joke but she thought i was serious and now i cant bring it up or shel wonder how i worked it out)

so what should i do? i have a tendency to turn situations around so that i get sympathy and im worried if i tell them that i know iv been a bitch ill end up trying to get sympathy from them...

this has turned into a bit of a rant but any help would be appreciated!!!

:confused::eek:

xx

[sassy boi]

just tell her that i didnt mean 2 offend you coz ur my m8 and i really want 2 keep this friend ship then see what she says and tell the boy that your sorry for treating you like shit and i understand if you dont want 2 be my friend and leave it at that because if you keep asking him 2 like you again he will just be more annoyed. hope i helped sorry if a didnt

[Mollie]

you did help thanku

im gonna bring up the university thing to my friend and just say that i hope she realised i didnt mean to be nasty

and with they guy... well im scared if i say that hel think that im just tryin to get attention or whatever so i dont know... il work something out with him cos i do really wanna apologise cos i know iv been horrible

im also worried that the moment i apologise hel be like "ye i know uv been a bitch" cos that could honestly push me over the edge! so i might ask him not to say anything and just listen to me...

hmmm... i need to think about this some more!

[sassy boi]

wel to stop yourself from going over the edge if u have his number just txt him and if he makes you go over the edge juist admit it and agree with him then mayby in time when he calms down hell understand and forgive u.

the bottom line is u will have 2 say something because if u don't things will not go anywhere and be awkward for a long time

[Crazysam]

wel to stop yourself from going over the edge if u have his number just txt him and if he makes you go over the edge juist admit it and agree with him then mayby in time when he calms down hell understand and forgive u.

the bottom line is u will have 2 say something because if u don't things will not go anywhere and be awkward for a long time

Sassy has pretty much said it there ^ all i can say is you need to confront them and say something!

[Mollie]

wel to stop yourself from going over the edge if u have his number just txt him and if he makes you go over the edge juist admit it and agree with him then mayby in time when he calms down hell understand and forgive u.

the bottom line is u will have 2 say something because if u don't things will not go anywhere and be awkward for a long time

im thinkin about emailing him... or if i speak to him on msn sayin it then going offline before he gets a chance to say anything... or is that quite cowardly?

i dunno but basically i know i have to do something... hmmm lifes too hard lol :eek:

[Mollie]

never mind lol i spoke to him and everythings cool!

i just need to apologise to my other friend now lol

but im happy now

xxx