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VEight
August 16th, 2012, 02:52 AM
Hey, lately my feelings for my girlfriend of 3 months seem like they've been fading. I really like her and don't want to break up with her. I just feel like my feelings of infatuation are going away. We spent countless hours hanging out just talking and getting to know each other. We are talking almost constantly. Maybe I'm just getting bored and need a short break from her? Also she's moving a few states away from me (but is returning eventually) so maybe I am stressed out by that. Plus add in going to a new school with people I don't know, and her moving and not being able to see her for a time. I do not want to break up with her at all. I'm just wondering, will this phase pass?

lou lou
August 16th, 2012, 03:07 AM
I think your just stressed thats all

VEight
August 16th, 2012, 03:11 AM
Thanks for the feed back. Yeah a lot has been going on lately :)

FreeFall
August 16th, 2012, 10:03 AM
Agreed, you could be stressed. Or maybe you're comfortable around her?
Do you still get those butterflies every so often? You could just be so comfortable around her and used to her that it feels natural to you and those sparks you used to feel pop up every so often but not as much.

VEight
August 17th, 2012, 09:26 AM
Yes, maybe too comfortable, when we're not hanging out face to face it's either skype texting or calling. I feel like with school starting up again and her moving out of state for a while, I can get some breathing room and my feelings will hopefully revitalize for her. But she's gonna be away for a while so I'm scared I might get bored of her completely :(