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rich_11
August 18th, 2007, 08:08 PM
I'm 15 1/2 years old and seem to be enetering stages of puberty different o others. My penis han't really gorwn in size yet i have developed some under arm hair. When erect my penis is about 3 1/2 inches and i was wondering what stage i am really at. If anyone had similar problems when did the biggest changes start occuring. Also, as i go to alot of parties and as part of the more popular crowd some of the girls are really up for it, which is really good!, and i know for sure i'm straight, but when they had too much too drink and they want to take things to the next level i have no choice to back out a bit, and my friends are starting to ask questions. I feel so late in this developement i'm starting to feel quite under confident. What should i do???

Bobby
August 18th, 2007, 08:10 PM
You can't really do anything but wait, sorry. You sound like you could be a little late. But you are completely normal :D

rich_11
August 18th, 2007, 08:15 PM
i suppose.. do you know what stage roughly i am in out ofthe 5 because i'm lightly confused by them... its just frustratin when all m mates are having so much fun and i can't really get involved. Also, because my voice hasn't broken, i think they ae aare of my problem and they are all nic about it and don't mention it... but when they do get drunk alot of them seem to say whatever they like

LateForTheSky
August 18th, 2007, 08:21 PM
Well no one but urself knows what stage u are on (Stages are completely unaccurate) I suggest you go with the flow people take u for what u are and think about would u rather be a well developed person that no one wants sex with or a not so developed well liked person. U have pressure but thats all part of growing up Peer Presure I beleive its called. Dont give into it do what is safe and naturel to u don't let anyone get to u. Except maybe a respectible adult.

rich_11
August 18th, 2007, 08:38 PM
thanks for the help... it's just difficult when the're so many really hot girls, and i know most of them wana get off with me just because they wna become part of the group, but it becomes so tempting but if i did too early then i might get judged seeing that most of them arent that understandin

Gumleaf
August 18th, 2007, 08:51 PM
you will just have to be patient. but by getting under arm hair thats a good sign that you are progressing well in puberty. as per the stages on www.puberty101.com you are probably stage 3-4.

Omega
August 18th, 2007, 11:14 PM
I am also 15.5 and have around 3 inches but I still have sex almost every day with my girlfriend. You're taking a risk if she talks to other people about size but you're still able to have sex and it still feels just as good for both of you.

Crazysam
August 19th, 2007, 04:22 AM
There is nothing you can do about it mate...except wait it out!

I know it sucks I'm also late :(

Camazotz
August 19th, 2007, 06:55 PM
Stages dont matter too much. Youre just a late bloomer, which is fine. In time, you will grow more mature. And well I think, youre a little young to go the "next level(which Im guessing is 3 base?)"

1234
August 20th, 2007, 12:07 AM
I'm kinda late, I just turned 15. Not as late as you but still, yeah I'm waiting it out...definitely.

MikeKnowsYou
August 20th, 2007, 12:26 AM
I'm 15 1/2 years old and seem to be enetering stages of puberty different o others. My penis han't really gorwn in size yet i have developed some under arm hair. When erect my penis is about 3 1/2 inches and i was wondering what stage i am really at. If anyone had similar problems when did the biggest changes start occuring. Also, as i go to alot of parties and as part of the more popular crowd some of the girls are really up for it, which is really good!, and i know for sure i'm straight, but when they had too much too drink and they want to take things to the next level i have no choice to back out a bit, and my friends are starting to ask questions. I feel so late in this developement i'm starting to feel quite under confident. What should i do???

man, i have the same EXACT problem, i am 14, and i am about ur length. exept i'm kinda lacking the pit hair...just hang in there. if u are worried about ur size, DON'T u have to grow sometime, and u can stay abstinant until u feel comfortable, and feel ready. plus, if u like a girl, and she likes u, and u are ready for the next level, she shouldn't care...if she doesn't like u the way u are, then maybe she isn't right for u. if u are afraid, just stick to other things like masturbating, or even join an acfivity to keep your mind of it...


-Mike

JonM
August 20th, 2007, 02:05 AM
im not as late at you but the same way. Im 15 and my penis is 5.75 but on the thin side. Im pretty self contious so I dont wanna do anything till i found someone who a trust really. So just really way man it aint a big deal.