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root
August 15th, 2012, 02:13 AM
So I like sex but I don't like relationships with guys or girls. There's something un-appealing about having to be nice to someone 24/7.

I have a boyfriend but I kinda don't like him. He's a nice guy, hot and smart and all that but I don't like him at all. I think he's boring and dull. For some reason, I've been just going along with it for the past 3 months and I want to break it off with him but dunno how to since he's really into me.

I was gonna tell him that I'm lesbian but that's not true because I'm not into girls.

So, is anyone else like this?

XxReaper454xX
August 15th, 2012, 02:54 AM
Well, I've never heard of this. But this kinda seems like the girl i wanna date. I dont like her one bit. i would just be in it for the pleasures. And i think that would be kinda mean to do to her. I would but im to nice of a guy.

workingatperfect
August 15th, 2012, 02:58 AM
Just have friends with benefits relationships? They can be nice when you're not really into being serious about someone at the time as long as you both understand that sex is all it is.

As for breaking up with your boyfriend, just tell him the truth. Tell him you don't want any sort of commitment right now and it's just not working. Honesty is always best when breaking up with someone.

Jimmy Page
August 15th, 2012, 04:40 AM
Sounds like Freddie Mercury :P

root
August 15th, 2012, 04:42 AM
lol, yeah i think i'll just do the friends with benefits thing

FullyAlive
August 15th, 2012, 04:49 AM
:arrow2: relationships and dating

Harley Quinn
August 15th, 2012, 05:24 AM
My friend is like this, I guess you just have an overactive sex drive without wanting to a committed relationship. You know, like Joey from f.r.i.e.n.d.s? Yeah.

If you still want to have sex with this guy, talk to him about what he thinks of it and if it doesn't float his boat, you don't have to stay with him.

FreeFall
August 15th, 2012, 11:53 AM
Just drop him. You don't like him anyways.
Friends with benefits is good for you, they don't even have to be friends really. Just sex buddies.

Chaos42
August 16th, 2012, 07:25 AM
Yea, just get friends with benefits, and tell your current bf the truth.
Barney de HowIMetYourMother?

sophiebaker24
August 16th, 2012, 10:40 PM
Person who is willing to have sex but not willing to get attached is hard to find. Although this is quite possible just like in Friends with Benefits right?